Catterygirl
Mum aged around 80 at the time had her ears syringed resulting in her being deaf after that. Put me off totally interfering with my ears. Husband uses cotton buds against my advice. I never touch my ears at all and have no problem.
I’m not surprised that you’ve been put off by your mum’s experience however they don’t use the ear syringing method as much these days - I have heard it can pose a risk to your eardrum because it involves water being sprayed into your ears at pressure to flush the excess wax out.
As others have said the newer method of wax removal is micro suctioning which feels like your ears are being gently hoovered out, there is a camera on the end of the ‘hoover’ which makes it a safer procedure.
I don’t think GPs have this new equipment available so that’s why we have to pay privately now. From personal experience of both procedures, I much prefer the gentler micro suctioning method, as I found ear syringing painful at times.
I don’t think any of us like having our ears ‘messed with’ but sadly have no alternative as wax build up causes pain and hearing loss.

