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Cath9 Thu 07-Nov-24 14:00:30

Hi,
I have been hearing that a few of my age have had heart attacks etc
As I am alone with one son in NZ and the other is only here for three weeks every 6 or 8 weeks, also my sibling lives in Spain.
For this reason can anyone recommend an alarm or whatever?

silverlining48 Thu 07-Nov-24 14:03:26

Cath I know there are various alarms etc but why not get in touch with Age UK who will be able to advise,

Georgesgran Thu 07-Nov-24 14:28:32

Yes - I’d consult the ‘experts’ first. It’s the time and effectiveness of the response that’s paramount.

I think I paid @£20 a month for my Dad’s - probably more now, but worth it for peace of mind.

Bea65 Thu 07-Nov-24 14:34:08

Hi Cath, not sure where you live but Social Services will help you if you’re over a certain age and have a disability but also if you live alone- They can offer care alarm pendants via your phone- hope this is helpful 🤞🏻

M0nica Thu 07-Nov-24 18:15:48

Age UK is definitely the answer to your problem. Look them up locally. They will all have a help and advice centre who will help you

Cath9 Thu 07-Nov-24 18:23:01

Thanks so much.
A lady is phoning me next week on the matter.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Thu 07-Nov-24 18:30:48

I hope you get sorted as feeling vulnerable won’t be pleasant. Being in Control will give you confidence.

Georgesgran Thu 07-Nov-24 18:50:56

Excellent result Cath9. Hope you get something to suit you. X

Oreo Thu 07-Nov-24 19:20:30

There are lots of security things out there, one will suit your needs as not everyone wants to wear a pendant.

henetha Thu 07-Nov-24 20:22:23

I'm in the middle of researching this, with the help of my son. Not a pendant though, I prefer a watch or even a little phone. I hope you find one that suits you.

silverlining48 Thu 07-Nov-24 22:25:50

I am glad you have someone phoning Cath. Hope you get some good advice.

A friend bought a smart watch for her mum but realised it needed charging every day which didn’t work as her mum has dementia, so she had to get something different.
Best ask how long things it last befire needing re charging.

Deedaa Thu 07-Nov-24 23:06:09

My friend has worn an alarm. either as a pendant or round her wrist for years now. She started when her husband became bedridden and carried on with it after he died because she now lives alone. Recently she went to bed with the wrist alarm on, rolled over on it while she was asleep, and set it off. She vaguely heard her phone ringing but thought it was a scam call, because who would ring in the middle of the night? She was very surprised to be woken up by strange men in her room, wanting to know if she was all right! Still, it's nice to know that they do come out if they think something's wrong.

Charleygirl5 Thu 07-Nov-24 23:35:42

I have just bought a new landline with 2 extra handsets and this one states it is not compatible with some personal alarms. I do not have an alarm yet but I really should.

Sillymoo Fri 08-Nov-24 08:32:41

Do you need a landline for these? Fil investigating getting one but only has a mobile phone.

Charleygirl5 Fri 08-Nov-24 08:37:01

A mobile phone on its own should be okay but I did not expect a new landline to be possibly incompatible.