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Would you be a granny escort?

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Bea65 Tue 04-Feb-25 10:06:27

Well would you? I wouldn’t but she’s getting filthy rich doing so…was a devout Christian for 40 yrs, then met a 27year old rugby player at age 57…

Dickens Wed 05-Feb-25 01:33:55

Barleyfields

I was surprised when I saw the photo. I imagined some stunner. Don’t understand the attraction.

She looks like one of the regular judges at the Annual Village Flower Show...

MissAdventure Tue 04-Feb-25 23:20:31

The attraction is everything that comes with growing old - wrinkles and all.

One of my exes loved older women when he was a young man, but he said he found it off putting when they tried to cover their grey, and dress up like a young woman would do.

His preference was older, wiser women. (Not as old as busty grandma, though!)

He was mid twenties, and he liked women of around 45 - 55.

Barleyfields Tue 04-Feb-25 23:05:55

I was surprised when I saw the photo. I imagined some stunner. Don’t understand the attraction.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 04-Feb-25 22:42:21

I don't though understand why she wants to go public - in detail.

I think it’s called PR Dickens aka advertising her product.
No such thing as bad publicity.
Highlighting her services to a wider audience.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 04-Feb-25 22:38:53

Here’s the gal in question.
‘Busty Granny’ she calls herself.

Babs03 Tue 04-Feb-25 22:32:30

Dickens you make some good points.
Sex work is indeed a precarious profession. And a young man who has a fetish about much older women may also harbour other fetishes that are far darker and more dangerous, indeed some clients with unsavoury kinks may see an older woman as an easier target.

Barleyfields Tue 04-Feb-25 22:17:18

I see. Thanks!

Tizliz Tue 04-Feb-25 22:07:11

Barleyfields

Where do you have wrinkles that are normally unseen? I haven’t and have no secret to impart. I’m genuinely puzzled.

Upper arms!

Primrose53 Tue 04-Feb-25 22:01:20

There was a prog on local radio a few years ago about a middle-aged couple who ran a B and B which was struggling. It was in danger of being repossessed so they needed to make more money.

After lots of ideas the wife came up with the idea of doing a B and B with a difference. She did it for several years and it was a huge success. A lot of their clients were young, family men. She thought it was an escape for them from bills, mortgages, kids and tired wives. She would allow them to play out any of their fantasies but she would never have sex with them. Her husband therefore didn’t mind.

Some wanted to dress up as babies with dummies etc and wear nappies. She had a man who wanted to lick all the skirting boards clean while she whipped him. Some were cross dressers and met with like minded people and spent weekends relaxing and socialising. She had older men, young men, middle aged men, gay men, straight men, trans men, professional men, tradesmen, teachers.

VANECAM Tue 04-Feb-25 21:58:14

petra

VANECAM

MissAdventure

I don't find her sad.
She's happier than some miserable old buggers.

Before I open the link, can you advise me on something please.
If I watch the YouTube video, will AI start sending me similar videos to watch (which I might find troublesome)?

Are you saying that you’ve never watched a YouTube video 🤦🏼‍♀️
And no, the Ai bogey man won’t come after you.

Well that’s not really true is it (excepting that AI isn’t a man as such). Now that AI has control, we are not in a position to say what it might or might not be doing.

Dickens Tue 04-Feb-25 21:48:57

MissAdventure

She just enjoys the company and sex, I presume.
No excuses needed.

She doesn't need to make excuses - her life, her body, her choice.

I don't though understand why she wants to go public - in detail. It reminds of those women, and men, who marry or have much younger partners, and want you to know how many times they "do it" per week, or how they "can't keep their hands off each other."

What's the motive? Are they seeking to impress? Reassure themselves? Are they getting huge sums for 'spilling the beans'? I genuinely don't understand.

I know sex work is now normalised, but I find it hard to accept that "it's just a job" like any other job.

Some of the abuse and violence perpetrated against sex workers - mostly women - isn't something you normally have to deal with in the workplace. Not to even mention those who are addicted to street drugs and find this is the only way to get 'easy' money.

Of course there are men who prefer 'granny sex' - the industry caters for as wider variety of fetishes as you can imagine.

Many years ago I read (not online - we weren't online in those days) about a cohort of men who were actually attracted to young women with disfigurements - especially amputees, in particular those who'd been in a car-crash. It wasn't a "shock, horror" article, but a serious look at the mind-set of these men. Apparently, they liked to have sex in wrecked cars - to re-enact the devastation of a car-crash, where the women were immobilised by their 'injuries' and compliant.

It might be a bit of a laugh - granny getting her rocks off with younger men (and, if it's true, being quite handsomely paid for it) - but to me, it's all part of a much murkier world.

There's a few weirdos out there - I hope this old gal doesn't come across any of them.

Primrose53 Tue 04-Feb-25 21:36:18

Sago

The woman in question is not to be believed, I saw her years ago on a swingers documentary, she is fame hungry and probably mentally ill.
I didn’t watch the article so I don’t know what she claimed but I would take it with a pinch of salt.
She was a sad character.

I thought I recognised her too. There was a prog about 5 years ago about older ladies attracting younger men. Sure she was on there.

foxie48 Tue 04-Feb-25 21:26:34

I'm well past the stage and age of being shocked by what others find interesting, exciting or sexual as long as it is within the law. I can't see that she is harming anyone. I've got a friend who has been in a relationship with someone 30 years her junior for the past 25 years. She's nearly 80 now and he's still by her side in a loving relationship. It takes all sorts!

Allsorts Tue 04-Feb-25 21:03:23

She has never been in love, no family that she is close to, she wants attention. It’s sordid, you can’t think otherwise. Why they thought it a suitable subject for morning tv I don't know.
I can only think the people on here that says its fine and see nothing wrong in it have lost the plot also.
I know I would rather have a get together with my girl friends (old ladies, I suppose all over 70) or a glass of wine and a good book, than all that.

Bea65 Tue 04-Feb-25 21:02:19

This Morning program has received many complaints from enraged viewers why this should have been a topic for conversation at 10 am.. agree

petra Tue 04-Feb-25 20:28:06

We unknowingly ( that’s the truth) rented a flat to a sex worker.
She moved on after 6 years which was handy as we came back to the uk to live at this time so used the flat while we decided what we were going to do.
I was in one day when the intercom phone rang. My daughter answered it. He asked if Miss S was in. No, she doesn’t live here anymore. He said he was one of her clients.
I went out on the balcony to see what he looked like ( he sounded very young.
He was a good looking young man of about 18. The lady of the night was in her late 40s.
She was one of the best tenants we had.

Some of my grandson’s friends often tell him they think his mum ( my daughter) is well fit. She’s 54 and she is 🥰

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 04-Feb-25 20:21:09

Sex and money are bartered between consenting adults. Always have been, always will be.

petra Tue 04-Feb-25 20:09:36

VANECAM

MissAdventure

I don't find her sad.
She's happier than some miserable old buggers.

Before I open the link, can you advise me on something please.
If I watch the YouTube video, will AI start sending me similar videos to watch (which I might find troublesome)?

Are you saying that you’ve never watched a YouTube video 🤦🏼‍♀️
And no, the Ai bogey man won’t come after you.

nanaK54 Tue 04-Feb-25 20:08:42

Babs03

If any young man showed any interest in me I would run for the hills. I had enough of that in my time, now I would rather curl up in bed with a good book. And I would obviously point him in the direction of specsavers.

Same and a nice cup of tea and a digestive biscuit grin

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 04-Feb-25 19:59:06

🤣🤣🤣

Iam64 Tue 04-Feb-25 19:55:39

FGT - that’s my impression from my South African informant. Do you have similar informants .,..

AreWeThereYet Tue 04-Feb-25 19:54:06

VANECAM

MissAdventure

I don't find her sad.
She's happier than some miserable old buggers.

Before I open the link, can you advise me on something please.
If I watch the YouTube video, will AI start sending me similar videos to watch (which I might find troublesome)?

AI won't do anything at all but YouTube might send you similar videos once it's algorythm gets updated.

At the very least it is likely to send you any other videos made by the same channel. But just tell it you don't want to see anything from that channel.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 04-Feb-25 19:51:17

Allira

Grannynannywanny

I see a gap in the market here for us Gransnetters. Forget OnlyFans. We could call it OnlyGrans. The withdrawal of the winter fuel allowance would be a distant memory once we have our new business thriving 😆

Especially those with hip or knee replacements! grin

What about teeth?

Better without.
By all accounts.

bathsalts Tue 04-Feb-25 19:49:15

It makes me heave.

MissAdventure Tue 04-Feb-25 19:43:37

Hopefully someone else can reassure you, as I'm not at all techy.
The next time I go on YouTube, there will probably be older escort videos for me to browse, but I simply won't browse them.

Th3 next thing I watch will probably mean that videos of the same kind of content will be on view, which will probably be crime ones.