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VE DAY. Do you remember?

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annodomini Mon 10-Mar-25 11:28:39

-There will be a four-day celebration of the 80th anniversary of VE Day, including a flypast, concert and a Westminster Abbey service, the government has announced.-

I've been wondering what this celebration will mean to any but the few of us who can remember the war and VE day. It seems the Government is going to a lot of expense to organise a big show that is likely to be virtually meaningless to subsequent generations.
Having said that, I can remember VE day with great clarity. My dad hoisted a Union flag above our house. parade was scheduled and my aunt took me (four and a half) and my sister (not quite 2) to the promenade - my mum being 8 months pregnant with our next sister. Mum had made us special dresses: white Viyella, with red, white and blue smocking and embroidered flags. It was a bright, sunny day and we had a good view (my sister still in the pram). The proudest moment for me was when my dad, the Captain of the local Home Guard, marched past with his squad. Another indelible memory is the ice-cream cones my aunt bought for us on the way home. During the war, there were no ice-cream shops. These cones were our first - though by no means our last.
80 years on, few memories are as clear to me as that day in May 1945. Anyone younger than I am now - 84 - is unlikely to have such a memory. So - how much meaning will the celebration have for our children and grandchildren - even great grandchildren?

BobbieGee Mon 17-Mar-25 09:28:53

There are only a couple of people here who've briefly mentioned VJ day - thank you. What people don't remember or don't know is that the war did not end with VE Day. There were so many British, Australian and Dutch prisoners of war, for example, still stuck in camps in the likes of Singapore, Burma and Japan.
The basic story is that, once the Japanese surrendered on August 15th, 1945 and our men who had been imprisoned under horrendous conditions were "free", they didn't set out for home until September, October or even later. They were told not to make a fuss on arrival and were sent home by sea the long way round so that they had time to fatten up their emaciated bodies and not shock the happy population at home who had recently celebrated VE Day.
My own father who, like so many others, was there at the fall of Singapore and spent 3 1/2 years in captivity, was shipped out via the United States into California, then cross-country on a train into Canada, then by boat again into Liverpool and by train back home to Aberdeen. For gallant soldiers who were all so ill, this was ridiculous treatment when they could have been flown home directly.
But they were basically told, Don't rain on their parade (those at home elated at the end of the war in Europe), don't speak about the horrors in the PoW camps and on Death Railway, nor were they were given help in finding jobs or being treated for PTSD or the numerous tropical diseases many of them were still suffering from.
Churchill made errors in his tactical strategy against the Japanese and these, coupled with the treatment of those who survived to come home, have led me to despise him. He's not the big war hero he's been painted, people like my father were.

Lovetopaint037 Mon 17-Mar-25 10:14:08

I was four years old and remember the porters in our flats hosing the walls down. Tables set out for all us children to have sandwiches, jelly etc. Then a Punch and Judy show. We were in the middle of London and bomb damage was all around us.

annodomini Mon 17-Mar-25 10:17:58

My uncle, a radiographer with the Medical Corps, was in Burma with the Army when the prisoners were released from the Japanese camps. To the end of his life, he refused to speak of the horrors their imprisonment had inflicted on these survivors whose emaciated bodies he and his colleagues had to treat - as far as they were able. He never in later years would purchase any article made by Japan. I think VJ Day should be something to commemorate than to celebrate, not least because the deadliest weapons ever used - were employed to end this savage conflict.

EmilyHarburn Mon 17-Mar-25 11:05:34

My parents took my sister and I to London with two neighbours. It was marvellous being in such a happy crowd cheering for the Royal Family and seeing lights after dark as that was the day the blackout finished.

Jane43 Mon 17-Mar-25 11:07:29

I don’t remember anything about it, I was only two that year.

Tuckshop Mon 17-Mar-25 13:01:19

My mother was 15 and celebrated with many others by dancing around the clocktower in our local town.

Hatcham Mon 17-Mar-25 15:25:01

My mother always boasted that all of Europe celebrated her birthday!

morwenna Mon 17-Mar-25 17:14:20

We are celebrating with a garden party in my neighbour's garden One neighbour's Mum is 93 and I hope she'll have memories to share. I'm hping to make Victoria sponges!

Romola Tue 18-Mar-25 21:07:51

VE day was DH's 10th birthday. He remembered everyone bringing their blackout curtains to burn on the town's bonfire.
He said it was the best birthday he ever had.
In France, 8th May is a bank holiday every year. We used to say we should have gone to live there so that he'd always have had a day off on his birthday.

Elrel Thu 20-Mar-25 00:10:20

A vivid childhood memory, I was five. My mother and I were living with my grandparents in a tiny unmade avenue of ten terraced houses off Pershore Road in Birmingham. There was an announcement on the wireless and all the grown ups were immediately very happy. The celebration was the next evening I think. A piano was pushed out into the middle of the avenue and a bonfire was lit. Flags appeared at windows and one lucky girl wore a red white and blue dress made for her sister for the coronation of King George in 1936. Grownups drank beer and danced, everyone sang ‘She’ll be Coming Round the Mountain’ I wondered who ‘she’ was. We drank ‘pop’ and ate baked potatoes from the bonfire. Poking about in the ashes next morning we found a forgotten potato which sadly was too hard to eat. It was a wonderful evening and I thought every day would be like this! VJ Day was disappointing as there was no street party. I had been told of ‘before the war’ which sounded great with treats I had never had such as bananas and balloons. My first banana came months later, it was all right but not as good as the occasional orange I had had during the war, I expected it to be more delicious! The first balloons
I saw (apart from barrage balloons in the sky) was brought to school by a girl about a year later, everyone wanted to know where she got it from. It was pink, huge, and so shiny. I thought all the fathers and uncles would come home straight away but of course they came gradually over the next months. One afternoon I came home from school to see a man I didn’t recognise waiting at the corner of the avenue. I whispered ‘I don’t remember him’ because I felt awkward, probably not the welcome he was hoping for. I did loved the big blonde doll Maria he had sent me from Italy. She had a lovely blue dress and came in two parcels. Her arms and legs arrived several days before her head and body!

Bellanonna Sun 23-Mar-25 12:24:33

Love that story, Elrel. Yes I remember the barrage balloons that we often saw overhead. I too was not impressed by bananas brought from Malta, I think, by an uncle. Crikey, 80 years have since passed!

Allira Sun 23-Mar-25 12:30:06

Elrel

DH says he remembers there being street parties every time another serviceman returned from the war - whether there really were or not, I don't know. Sadly his father was not one of them.

silverlining48 Sun 23-Mar-25 13:08:48

That’s a really nice story Elrel. Thanks for sharing.

Allira Sun 23-Mar-25 14:50:16

Elrel - I missed out a thank you

Got distracted!

V3ra Sun 23-Mar-25 16:26:26

www.thenma.org.uk/what's-on/exhibitions/1945

The National Memorial Arboretum in Staffordshire will have a variety of events this year to commemorate the ending of the second world war, marking both VE Day and VJ Day.
It's well worth a visit.