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GrannyMagoo Sun 16-Mar-25 11:45:39

I'm looking for some advice about sleeping arrangements for my grandchildren when they come to stay.
They lived in Australia, so I don't see them much but they will be staying with me for
three weeks, They will be 2.5yrs and 5 yrs.
I have a small bedroom with a single bed etc. but wonder if I should buy bunk beds (goodness knows when they might be back) or would an inflatable bed be okay for the
youngest?
I'd suggest topping and tailing but I know that wouldn't be acceptable to their parents.
There isn't enough room for a trundle bed, unfortunately.
Thank you.

AuntieE Mon 17-Mar-25 14:01:19

Inflatable mattresses are inadvisable if you have cats! they love lying on them, but their claws go straight through them, so keep a puncture kit for bikes handy.

I would suggest a folding mattress of foam rubber instead.

Buy and adult lenght, then it can be used as the children grow older.

Or could the little one sleep in the same rooms as the parents? Is there room for a bed there?

WelshPoppy Mon 17-Mar-25 14:01:08

I definitely wouldn't use bunk beds for that age group. How about a couple of junior mattresses from IKEA used with sleeping bags. When we used to take our children camping, around similar age we used inflatable mattresses with sleeping bags folded in half so they didn't disappear inside them and no distance to fall.

Grannyjacq1 Mon 17-Mar-25 13:59:33

www.futoncompany.co.uk/shop-by-product/sleepover/cube-bed-with-magazine-pocket.html?srsltid=AfmBOopl5wUPxuGDh2wPXJvHRh85pWhAENkBEAvl0NbQC
These bed cubes are brilliant and double up as seats. We have 2 for visiting grandchildren and the Aussie replies.

granjan66 Mon 17-Mar-25 13:48:58

My grandkids sleep on mattresses in the loft, though it is also my husband's office. It is carpeted and heated.

Sarahr Mon 17-Mar-25 13:46:45

Top and tail. Never hurt me when we had visitors. It will be exciting for them. Otherwise, see if you can borrow a chair bed or single lilo.

Mojack26 Mon 17-Mar-25 13:46:36

Bunk beds I would say. An inflatable ok for1 max 2 nights but not 3weeks. Is 2 5 yr old in a bed? I would double check before doing anything. Plus bunk beds are space saving and give a wee bit room to play

grandMattie Mon 17-Mar-25 13:37:11

Can you borrow.?

Oreo Sun 16-Mar-25 15:52:20

What’s a trundle bed? Have heard of truckle beds which slide out from under a normal bed, often used in the past.
Inflatable beds are great now, very comfy even for an adult.

Maggiemaybe Sun 16-Mar-25 15:00:59

If as you say the youngest is still in a cot, you could check out your local charity shops for a travel cot - we have a couple of local charity shops specialising in children’s items and they always have them in stock. You’d need to add a thicker mattress for comfort for an older child/longer stay.

Or just a single mattress on the floor that could simply slide under the bed afterwards for future use?

Norah Sun 16-Mar-25 14:44:23

You asked if inflatable would be OK?

Yes, when we have to have more people than we have beds, we use inflatable beds. Linens to fit precisely (adjusted by sewing).

Benross Avenli Twin Size Inflatable Airbed with Built In Electric Pump | Quick & Easy Inflation | Storage Bag Included | Flocked Surface| Camping or Home| 1.96L x 0.97W x 0.47H metres | 88080 - Amazon

Primrose53 Sun 16-Mar-25 14:31:44

What’s wrong with a camping airbed. Like a lilo?

Calendargirl Sun 16-Mar-25 13:49:03

Just re-read, perhaps you haven’t room for the extra bed?

Calendargirl Sun 16-Mar-25 13:47:50

Personally, wouldn’t go to the expense of bunk beds for a 3 week visit.

Have any friends got a spare single bed they would loan you?

Baggs Sun 16-Mar-25 13:06:06

We used ready beds and sleeping bags for years and years. Adults slept on ours too sometimes. It was a full length one.

kittylester Sun 16-Mar-25 13:01:35

A ready bed and sleeping bag seems a good choice - makes it fun too.

Wyllow3 Sun 16-Mar-25 12:53:16

Point about mattresses on the floor is children can't fall any distance if rolling over.

Wyllow3 Sun 16-Mar-25 12:52:15

good value for money too and doubling up for extra seating.

Allira Sun 16-Mar-25 12:44:32

Wyllow3

How about

readysteadybed.co.uk/collections/z-beds?srsltid=AfmBOoqLoSwakkmZx_CVCMe7k2GZXdEO5piXm88DX4OrHrBM5yFndqRO

Yes, we had one of those a while ago, they're useful.

J52 Sun 16-Mar-25 12:36:46

From Argos hope the image appears.

Wyllow3 Sun 16-Mar-25 12:36:43

How about

readysteadybed.co.uk/collections/z-beds?srsltid=AfmBOoqLoSwakkmZx_CVCMe7k2GZXdEO5piXm88DX4OrHrBM5yFndqRO

J52 Sun 16-Mar-25 12:36:00

This might be an option.

J52 Sun 16-Mar-25 12:34:12

I wouldn’t put a 5 year old in a top bunk for safety reasons, so I don’t think they’d be practical. The bumper bed as suggested above seems a good idea, we used something similar, a cross between a camp bed and travelling cot from Mothercare. Maybe you could hire one, or if you buy one you might find that you could sell it on to another family.

Gingster Sun 16-Mar-25 12:27:59

A zed bed would be ideal. We’ve always had one for visiting grandchildren and then fold it away afterwards.

nanna8 Sun 16-Mar-25 12:25:42

Be careful with bunk beds if they are not used to them. Especially as they are quite young.

pascal30 Sun 16-Mar-25 12:24:25

You can hire children's bunk beds from BEDZ4HIRE.. They deliver and assemble on site.. and are based in Stoke on Trent..

I just googled it I don't know the company.. but it might be a solution if you have a garage for your visitor's bed to go in..