Regarding working and having a young baby. My son and DIL have a 9 month old baby. She was desperate to be a stay at home mum, and it would have been cruel and damaging for her to be forced back to an unappreciated teaching profession, and leave her beloved child. I gave them my life savings to allow them to put down a deposit on their 1st house, buy a second hand vehicle and to fund her lack of wages and stay at home for the first year until she got back on her feet. She never returned to the teaching job she had previously, but opted to still work for the school from home. I am in the mindset, that mothers who want to raise their children should be allowed to do so. Working until you are 70 and handing your babies to a stranger doesn't always suit the mother or child. I know from experience, lots of mothers n fathers I have spoken to have regretted their decision doing this, with hindsight. When speaking to grown up children, the same regret was voiced. Some adult children even expressing that they are only really getting to know their 70 year old parents truly now, as they were never really present during their childhoods. It's a shame, we are slaves to the system. Xx