Personally, unless you live like this in winter because your fianacial resources do not rise to any more (have you checked you are receiving all the benfits you are entitled to?), I think what your doing is not a cause of pride, but more a pointless exercise in masochism, which you think is impressive
Blimey!
I think an apology is in order here Monica - judgemental, bossy, and self- righteous spring to mind.
Would you actually say this face to face? Or would you be more circumspect and tactful?
No wonder some people dip into forums like this, speak honestly and retreat, shot down in flames!

