keepingquiet
Finding the right painkiller is essential and I'm surprised they didn't give you any at the hospital.
Head pads around your chest may also help.
There are also analgesic creams you can apply too.
It will get better.
Good advice here, also keep a flat-sided jug near the bed, in case you are caught short - why prolong the pain. I did this when recovering from hip replacements and DH was not offended that I 'went' in his proximity.
