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People talking too fast

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crazyH Fri 27-Feb-26 18:48:53

Recently, my hearing has deteriorated to the point where I do need to have a hearing test. My adult grandchildren were here a few days ago. They were talking nine to the dozen, I could barely understand. I had to constantly say ‘Pardon’?

SueDonim Fri 27-Feb-26 18:48:17

I ask NHS staff to slow down and speak clearly for my Dh to hear. I emphasise that while this is their job, day in, day out, most of what they’re saying is new to us and we need time to take it in. Sometimes staff apologise and thank me for reminding them.

teabagwoman Fri 27-Feb-26 18:43:25

I find NHS staff are often the worst when it comes to talking quickly. I understand that they’re under pressure to get through appointments but in the end it only makes them take longer as I have to keep asking them to repeat things.

Flippin2 Fri 27-Feb-26 18:22:22

I am guilty of saying would you like to say that again?

Shelflife Fri 27-Feb-26 17:39:40

I have noticed thst young people often speak at break neck speed!

Charleygirl5 Fri 27-Feb-26 17:30:31

I find they do it on Corrie, especially the younger ones.

I try to lip-read when friends and acquaintances rattle off but being partially sighted, that skill has mostly left me.

Oreo Fri 27-Feb-26 15:44:07

It is annoying when people rattle off their information and I would have no problem in asking them to slow down if needed.
Don’t feel embarrassed or intimidated by this.

keepingquiet Fri 27-Feb-26 15:40:49

I see nothing wrong in asking people to slow down if they are talking too fast.

The whole point of speech is to be listened to and understood.

I know sometimes I speak very fast and don't mind at all if someone asks me to slow down.

ClicketyClick Fri 27-Feb-26 15:37:57

When I'm talking to someone who's not aware of my hearing loss, I will let them know and say I apologise in advance if I keep asking them to repeat. So I gave this little opening today when I had an appointment with a nurse at the surgery. I thought she would be mindful of this but she spoke so fast that I had to ask her twice more to slow down. It was very frustrating as I really needed to catch the information she was giving me. On a recent package holiday, the coach rep spoke ten to the dozen. Had I been travelling solo, I would have been completely at a loss and may have missed something important. I managed to get her on her own while others were busy getting their luggage and explained to her that she should be mindful that some people may have hearing problems and so she should speak slower. a half hearted apology given and could tell it didn't really register with her. I have put on my feedback form that staff should adjust their pace of speech. Just 2 examples out of many and don't get me started on tannoy announcements everywhere lol. Is it just me or has anyone else noticed that people seem to speech far quicker these days?