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80th birthday present inspiration- please

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kittylester Thu 21-May-26 09:19:16

Which is why I was looking for suggestions.

A journal is a brilliant idea as she belongs to a writing group and has just published her life story.

A planter is a good one as well as she loves her garden and is always out there.

Not sure why we are such great friends- i neither write nor garden. We both like wine though.

Thank you for all the great ideas.

Calendargirl Thu 21-May-26 09:08:28

Just saying, but at 80, most people don’t want more ‘stuff’.

Usedtobeblonde Thu 21-May-26 09:08:17

I agree about a lovely food that she wouldn’t buy for herself or if she enjoys a drink, as some of us oldies still do, some small bottles of good wine or fizz for her.
My friend who was recently 85 and also recently widowed loves a glass of red with her evening meal so I bought her 6 185cl bottles and she was thrilled.
I enjoy if someone buys me handmade chocolates, such a treat.

Naughtyneine Thu 21-May-26 09:06:23

What about something like CAFOD do whereby you buy a goat ( not literally of course) but your donation does and it's given to a person/family in the third world...donations also buy maternity services and items for schools.

Visgir1 Thu 21-May-26 09:01:29

How about a Gardening gift card or Theatre gift card popped into her birthday card. I would like either, I'm also fond of a John Lewis gift card.

J52 Thu 21-May-26 09:00:15

Plant display. Not planter displaying?

Oreo Thu 21-May-26 08:59:55

Maybe she has enough ‘stuff’ but chocolates or fancy teas and biscuits or a lovely plant would be appreciated?

J52 Thu 21-May-26 08:59:28

Rather than give her a present on the day, maybe a planter displaying a pot that could be delivered to her house from the local garden centre.
Something she could enjoy throughout the summer.

Sago Thu 21-May-26 08:53:22

You could buy a beautiful notebook/journal and ask all the guests to write something about their friendship in the book.

Dontcallmelove Thu 21-May-26 08:50:48

If you know other people who are going, maybe club together and buy her a pair of theatre tickets or a couple of nights away? If that’s more than people want to pay, how about afternoon tea at somewhere nice? You can usually get some good discounts on experience websites.

kittylester Thu 21-May-26 08:38:36

My lovely friend and neighbour is 80 next week. She is having a tea party in a village cafe.

The invitation says 'no presents - just the joy of your company'. But, she is the most generous person. She goes over the top with presents for others. She gave me flowers, chocolates and handcream for my last birthday which was not a big one.

Any ideas for her present?