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Tattoos on older women

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MT62 Thu 16-Jul-26 19:37:36

I know tattoos are a thing now, & I’ll probably be slated, but whilst on holiday, & walking round the seaside today, I noticed a lot of woman in their 60s/70s have tattoos.
I think they probably had them in the 90s as the tattoos looked blue & faded.
I know friends of mine had them done, especially around the belly button, shoulder & lower back.
Some regret getting them done, two have had them removed.

Now all the younger people seem to have full sleeves & full thighs, & lower legs, is this trend persuading the older generation to get one?
I know, each to their own, but personally I don’t care for tattoos.
Just wondering what other grans think of tattoos?
Do some grans have them & regret getting them done?

Gran22boys Thu 16-Jul-26 21:14:48

Hideous and common.

Plevey08 Thu 16-Jul-26 21:18:37

It did make sense and I know what you mean.

MissAdventure Thu 16-Jul-26 21:20:43

smile
Thank you

Luckygirl3 Thu 16-Jul-26 21:21:07

Ah - wrinkly tattoos - a great look!

MissAdventure Thu 16-Jul-26 21:22:31

No different from wrinkly skin.
None of us look that great when nature has it's way.

Calendargirl Thu 16-Jul-26 21:35:53

They just look dirty to me.

What looks good on a young, attractive body won’t look quite so appealing on an old, shapeless, wrinkly one.

Cossy Thu 16-Jul-26 21:37:29

I have a tattoo on my upper right arm, it’s a sherry/port schooner, Sherry was my mother’s tipple, port was my father’s.

I had it done the month after my mother died in July 2022, I was 63 and have no regrets whatsoever.

Cossy Thu 16-Jul-26 21:40:06

Gran22boys

Hideous and common.

Judgy!

Elusivebutterfly Thu 16-Jul-26 21:40:10

One issue with having tattoos when you age is that they can look different. I have a large scar on my upper arm and it is a different shape now, as my arm has sagged. A tattoo would look quite strange.

boheminan Thu 16-Jul-26 21:42:35

MT62 the answer to your question is YES
and you will certainly get a one sided opinion on here. hmm

Sago Thu 16-Jul-26 21:45:21

MissAdventure

Blimey.
That made sense! blush

Have you been on the sherry again?😉

ViceVersa Thu 16-Jul-26 21:45:21

Cossy

Gran22boys

Hideous and common.

Judgy!

Very! And I'm sure if and when those with tattoos do get old and wrinkly, they'll have more to worry about than other people judging their body art.

Cossy Thu 16-Jul-26 21:45:23

I can assure you all I’m neither common nor stupid. Four out of five of our children have tattoos, and as I stated earlier I have one.

Would I have another, yep, do I regret it, no! Do I hate them, no. Some tattoo artists are amazing and I simply consider them body art.

None of our dear children have them on their faces, necks or hands and they can so easily be covered up either by clothes or very good, light make up.

Incidentally it’s very rude to refer to any woman, gay or not, as “butch”.

If I posted photos of my 2 gay daughters or their wife/partner, I very much doubt if you could tell they were gay! I won’t obvs be posting any photos!

nanny2507 Thu 16-Jul-26 21:46:00

I am 58 and I have 15 tattoos in various places. I love all but 1. The 1 i am not bothered about is tiny and I quite often forget I have it.

nanny2507 Thu 16-Jul-26 21:52:36

I love the "sleeves" for those not in the know they are the ones that cover the whole arm, leg, or half an arm or leg with no skin showing. These can quite often tell a story and if done by a great artist they look amazing. My husband has 12, my son has 2, my daughter has 5.

TillyTrotter Thu 16-Jul-26 22:00:56

I don’t mind them on others, but don’t have a yearning for a tattoo.
I think in years to come people without them will be in the minority.

Cossy Thu 16-Jul-26 22:01:08

nanny2507

I love the "sleeves" for those not in the know they are the ones that cover the whole arm, leg, or half an arm or leg with no skin showing. These can quite often tell a story and if done by a great artist they look amazing. My husband has 12, my son has 2, my daughter has 5.

My youngest daughter has a sleeve. All in black, with lots of shading, it’s three woman, one is Lilith, one is evil Aphrodite and offhand, I cannot remember who woman three is, but her arm is stunning!

Son 2, our youngest child, 24, has his band logo and various other musical reference tattoos.

Plevey08 Thu 16-Jul-26 22:01:16

Cossy, your sherry port schooner, is a lovely memory for you of your parents 😊

Millie22 Thu 16-Jul-26 22:07:02

It's a very personal choice. I was going to have one a few years ago but my DH wasn't keen. It was to be a small butterfly.

I read today that Katie Price was having another tattoo today. She has a lot already.

TillyTrotter Thu 16-Jul-26 22:07:30

I know lovely people with tattoo’s -
Tattoos do not pick people out to be ‘common’ or ‘dirty’.
More creative and often deep thinkers.

Bukkie Thu 16-Jul-26 22:24:54

Tattoos look hideous on everyone, young and old, male and female. Have the lovely illustration on a canvas instead. And no they don't make you an individual because most people have them now. It is so refreshing but increasingly rare to see skin without them.

madeleine45 Thu 16-Jul-26 22:30:27

When my son was a teenager, and lots of his friends were having tattoos. my main comments to him were about safety and commonsense. I told him that if he considered having a tattoo, most importantly to go to a qualified person, using safe and proper equipment. The other was a suggestion that he might think where on his body he might have one, and as he did not know at that time where or what kind of work he might do in the future, that whatever he had, to have it where it would be covered by a long sleeved shirt, in the beginning. He did eventually have a tattoo but had thought about what I said, which made sense to him then. In later years he has had more tattoos , and fortunately hasnt had any bad reaction to them.

Personally as a needle phobic , it is not something I would ever choose to do. Each to their own, I feel, but have advised people to avoid putting names on, as who knows what may change in life. Then there is also the ones that are supposed to be funny, which I really think are stupid, such as the line round the neck and cut here written on them. That joke will only be funny for a very short time and then they will have to cope with it or cover it for years. But in the end , as adults we are responsible for our own choices, and we may like or dislike what people wear or what colour they have their hair, or different styles of beards . We are entitled to our opinions , but do not feel it is up to us to make any comments on other peoples choices unless they ask for them. Live and let live on such things is my view.

Ladyleftfieldlover Thu 16-Jul-26 22:34:04

Elder son has two which he had done in Thailand. They are beautiful, one on his back the other on his shoulder. They are both of angels, each slightly different.

Gran22boys Thu 16-Jul-26 22:39:29

Still hideous and common. smile

MawsRosie Thu 16-Jul-26 22:42:11

I hate seeing tattoos but accept that on other people they are nobody’s business but their own.
However nothing will ever convince me that they add to a persons beauty, in particular a young woman in an evening or a wedding dress. Only my opinion, but just ugly.