Labels help the borrower, but the real problem is the lender's memory: by the time the tin is missed, nobody can say who had it. A few people I know keep a running note on the phone the moment something leaves the house, 'two 8 inch tins to the community café, 14 June', and delete the line when it comes back. It takes ten seconds and settles every 'did I ever get that back' argument. A notebook by the door does the same; an app that stores a dictated sentence and finds it again by name, XNeuronal for instance, means you can ask 'who has my tins' months later without scrolling; and a photo of the item in the note stops the 'it was never yours' reply. For the tins themselves, an engraving pen on the base survives the oven where marker does not.
Should we downsize to help our adult children out?
