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Photos of casket at Crematorium posted on Facebook

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Foxglove77 Tue 22-Sept-26 18:25:59

I am so angry right now. We had a lovely funeral service for our dear Mum yesterday. My eldest brother has gone back into the Crematorium after the service and taken several photos of our Mum in her casket on the plinth and posted them on Facebook.

I know you can't see her body but even so, its so disrespectful. Poor Mum would be devastated. It's not like she was able to give her permission.

AIBU to be furious with his actions?

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Whitewavemark2 Tue 22-Sept-26 18:30:11

To be it seems crass and severe lack of taste.

But I’m ancient.

Different days- different ways maybe?

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rafichagran Tue 22-Sept-26 18:37:14

Crass, and attention seeking on his part.

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M0nica Tue 22-Sept-26 18:37:19

I cannot see what is disrespectful about this action. How does it vary from having the funeral on Zoom so people not there can watch it.

I think he should have told you what he was going to do, but, otherwise I cannot see the problem.

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