Waiting

Kezia, what you are feeling is shared by so many when a loved one is dying. Should I have got there earlier, so many should I have done or should I not have done . I know someone who went to the loo at the moment her husband died, she had sat by his bed for hours and hours.

Your sister is not alone , try to think of the happy times you spent together, grieve, but no regrets please. No sister would want her sister suffering from the if only' I had done this or not done that.

Possibly you have received the news by now . I so feel for you X

kezia

Kezia when i received the phone call to say my Sister was dying (expected) and that i should make the 400 mile journey i said no, i had last seen my Sister when i was at home getting married about 7 weeks before, we said our goodbyes then and i have never ever regretted it. I went outside that night watched the sky and when the call came i blew her a kiss.Remember the good time tonight and let your Sister go with a smile.

Yes you absolutely have done the right thing

You have done the right thing kezia
A sad time for you and your family x

Thank you x

I agree with hulahoop (((hugs)))!

I'm sure you have done the right thing she is not alone it must be a hard day for you best wishes ?