Waiting

May I send my sincere condolences Kezia? I`m so sorry for the loss of your dear sister.

Thank you all for your thoughts and good wishes. It's been an odd day which I have opted to spend alone and feel better for doing so.

As others have said you made the right decision kezia, it's good have the memory of a positive goodbye with someone you love. Sounds like you have had a difficult time recently with losing a number of significant people in your life. Be kind to yourself, I hope you have folk around you who understand and with whom you can share your sense of loss. ?

kezia I am sorry for your loss and hugs x

So sorry Kezia , a sad time for you

From me, too, Kezia. ??

You have my heartfelt sympathy as well, Kezia.

I spent last summer with my lovely sister( who had reached the point of no return due to breast cancer) and had the same dilemma as you when the end was approaching in early October. I talked to her every day on the phone (I live in Malta, she was in Kent) and we agreed to remember each other from when we said goodbye.

She died on 10th October and I did wonder whether I had done the right thing. It's always going to be a tough decision, but I think you did the right thing.

Sincere sympathy, again, on your sad loss

A difficult time,*Kezia*, your sister knew you loved her, take care of yourself now .

Kezia and my heartfelt condolences.

My sincere condolences kezia

Such a sad time for you Kezia. Take comfort from those last hours you were together

So sorry for you and the loss of your sister.

Sorry for the loss of your dear sister.

I am so sorry for your loss. I think that to stay away and let your sister have her last moments with her son and daughter was a very sensitive thing to do. I send you my love and some

I am so sorry for your loss kezia. ??

Condolences kezia I am sorry that your sister suffered.

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Kezia, I am so sorry, I hope you have support , your sister is free from suffering but you will suffer the grief which is the price for love X

Thank you all
She died yesterday and the end wasn't as peaceful as we had hoped but at least it's over now.

Thinking of you xx

what a lovely memory to have

Thank you, lovely people. I'm still waiting but feeling calmer. She said a very clear "goodbye and thank you for everything' when I left her, which I shall remember.

You have done the right thing - a wise but hard decision.