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Do you delete numbers off your phone when someone dies?

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Nanabilly Fri 09-Mar-18 12:20:24

I could not do it .
I still have details of a cousin and a best friend in my phone who are no longer alive but I will not get rid of them from my phone .I would feel as if I was turning my back on their very existence .

Anniebach Fri 09-Mar-18 12:15:22

I have three old mobile phones and the one I use now plus two that belonged to my daughter, I will not /cannot delete anything on them , feel I am wiping her from my life , yes she is dead but will always be the most special person in my life.

MissAdventure Fri 09-Mar-18 12:11:52

I wouldn't even know how to start going about that..
I couldn't bring myself to do it yet. I just have to avert my eyes when using whatsapp, for now.
Thank you for you kind thoughts bridgeit

Bridgeit Fri 09-Mar-18 12:08:38

Perhaps a memory box with copies, photos & transcriptions would be comforting to you MissAdventure & also a practical way of dealing with them instead of keeping them on your phone. I would just like to add kind thoughts & condolences for your situation.

MissAdventure Fri 09-Mar-18 11:54:56

I hate the bloody adverts that come up as soon as you click on a thread!
I now have one about raising funds for breast cancer, which is what my daughter died from.
I haven't deleted her texts, or whatsapp messages, or her number. I don't know what i'll do, to be honest.

Jalima1108 Fri 09-Mar-18 11:54:21

Can you write down the number in an address book?

Bridgeit Fri 09-Mar-18 11:53:07

Also you could take a photography of the texts , so they are saved for you to read / look at in the future, without seeing on your phone on a regular basis .best wishes

Jalima1108 Fri 09-Mar-18 11:51:40

DH went through my address book and tippexed out anyone who had died and I was rather cross because, when we were trying to find out the old address of an elderly aunt it had been neatly erased.
It's as if they never existed

Bridgeit Fri 09-Mar-18 11:50:56

After a short while I transfer their details to a note book, which I keep especially for dear friends who have died. & also those who I may have lost continued contact with. I find this a comfort & doesn’t feel as harsh & final as deleting them altogether.

Liz08 Fri 09-Mar-18 11:42:35

It seem that quite a few people still have the phone numbers of family and friends who were no longer alive on their mobiles.

My dearly beloved Dad passed away just over a year ago and I deleted his number a few weeks later, now I feel bad.

I did keep the string of texts sent to my sister as I sat by his hospital bed in the weeks before he died. They remind me of the unfolding story.