Millymouge I hope all goes well this afternoon. I’m trying to arrange the scattering of my Aunt’s ashes which have been on a shelf in her garage for the past 6 months. As the house is for sale she needs to go somewhere but left no requests. I propose to scatter them, on the quiet, near to the golf course where she played until her mid nineties. The other executor has no interest in this as she ‘said her farewells at the funeral’ but felt we should ask all the relatives, mostly nephews, some of whom only connected with my Aunt rarely. So much against my will, I did. A number of them surprisingly, are coming quite a long way as am I. I have told them it’ll be a swift exercise and I will be leaving immediately afterwards so no catering in the hope that they’ll change their minds!! I would much have preferred to do this with just DD and am kicking myself for demurring to my cousin. I am having sleepless nights worrying about it. Anyway the deed will be done in a couple of weeks My Aunt who didn’t care for fuss, would be smiling, wryly, at my predicament