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Bereavement

DD ex

(17 Posts)
ninathenana Thu 02-Jan-20 16:09:39

He was a very needy person. He was a T1 diabetic who never looked after himself expecting DD to be his nurse and run around sorting his meds and generally mothering and supporting financially. Hr was hospitalised 3-4 times a year with DKA during the four years they were together.
DD has just been told that he was found dead alone yesterday. He was only 32 😟 very sad.
We're not sure how he died. DD is a little tearful and shocked but not really surprised.

phoenix Thu 02-Jan-20 16:26:42

That is sad.

Even though he was her ex, your daughter is bound to be reacting to this news.

mumofmadboys Thu 02-Jan-20 16:30:10

Oh dear that is very sad. So young. I'm sorry for your DD and you all. Will you go to the funeral?

ninathenana Thu 02-Jan-20 16:34:15

We have no idea at the moment where the funeral will be. We're not even sure where in the country he was living. His step dad lives in Scotland and his mum lives in Spain.

MissAdventure Thu 02-Jan-20 16:46:47

That's a sad end to a young life. Poor soul.

sodapop Thu 02-Jan-20 17:43:19

That is a sad end to a rather sad young life, your daughter must be feeling shocked and upset ninathenana it's good you are there to support her.

Anniebach Thu 02-Jan-20 17:47:53

So sad, such a young man

RIP

ninathenana Thu 02-Jan-20 17:58:55

Just to add, they were not married but lived together.
I can't say much more. I really feel for his mum and family.

Harris27 Thu 02-Jan-20 18:03:26

So very sad.

nanaK54 Thu 02-Jan-20 18:06:01

So sad, so young.....

morethan2 Thu 02-Jan-20 19:25:50

That is very very sad. Your poor daughter must be very sad and upset. I hope she doesn’t feel any guilt. There are some people who just can’t be helped. Your right his parents must be distraught. Condolences to all of you affected.

Iam64 Thu 02-Jan-20 19:58:00

Very sad -sincere condolences to his loved one's and your family

Smileless2012 Thu 02-Jan-20 20:00:53

My sincere condolences, this must be a difficult and upsetting time for you all, especially your DDflowers.

Bathsheba Thu 02-Jan-20 20:12:30

Oh that is sad, and must be so upsetting for your DD. My condolences x

BradfordLass72 Fri 03-Jan-20 00:56:43

Love to you all - his sufferings are over, bless him.

ninathenana Fri 03-Jan-20 08:51:50

morethan
there are some people that just can't be helped
So true in this case.

Thank you all for your kind words.

moggie57 Mon 06-Jan-20 13:27:33

just be there .ever helping where needed,,,...32 is no age.....his suffering are gone now. he may rest in peace.