What to do when you find out your beloved newly deceased husband gad been.visiting escorts and visiting adult chat sites

How did you find out? If it was through a mutual friend, then, it’s a double betrayal. He/she should have let you know earlier, while he was alive, so that you could have had counselling etc or even divorce him , and have closure.
So sorry you are going through this.

BlueBelle

This is incredible hard as you can now have no answers and likewise he can’t defend himself or even offer an explanation if one is possible
Are you absolutely sure you have the right information or is there any way someone is stirring
If your marriage was good and he was a caring attentive man is that enough ? can this information completely devoid your time together ? I suppose the answer is yes it’s killed it and made a lie out of everything
I really think some counselling is necessary for you now to get it all out and perhaps see it from different angles
I hope you can find some peace and some answers

Lovely empathic response, BlueBell, expressing my reaction.....but I couldn't find the words....... I hope you find some peace, Doth07.

This is incredible hard as you can now have no answers and likewise he can’t defend himself or even offer an explanation if one is possible
Are you absolutely sure you have the right information or is there any way someone is stirring
If your marriage was good and he was a caring attentive man is that enough ? can this information completely devoid your time together ? I suppose the answer is yes it’s killed it and made a lie out of everything
I really think some counselling is necessary for you now to get it all out and perhaps see it from different angles
I hope you can find some peace and some answers

Lots of men , happily married and not so much visit adult chat sites.
Escorts, hmm that's a whole different story.
Nothing you can do at this late stage about it.If you’ve had a good marriage then accept it while wishing he hadn’t felt he needed it.

I have no advice, but just wanted to say I'm sorry you're facing this.