Missing someone

Thank you. X

🧡 thinking of you MissA xx

The threads for anyone, at any time, kitty.
Losing such a close friend must be like losing part of your life, in a way.

You can always post your darkest secrets here to us - we won't tell a soul!

I'm not surprised you miss him, keepingquiet.
That kind of easy companionship is almost impossible to find.
The kind that comes naturally...

I think that's absolutely normal. There's no 'one size fits all' when it comes to grief, and sometimes it just creeps up and hits you right between the eyes when you least expect it. If you feel you can't talk to anyone else about it, at least you can come on here and let those feelings out and know others will understand.

Sending hugs, MissA.

Not the same at all but my 'best' friend died in January and I miss her every day. No one to send cryptic messages to, chat to for hours, have tea and cakes with etc etc.

Obviously, there are people but no one who is the whole thing.

Oh I've had counselling, but talking doesnt take away the bare fact that I miss my daughter. Sometimes its liveable, and i can pack it away in a box on my head.

Other times I can't.

I have never missed anyone the way I miss my brother who died less than six months ago.
It feels like a hole in my body that won't be filled. He got on my nerves but we were very close and no one seems to realise I miss him desperately, because he was 'just my brother'. We were almost twins.
A few years ago I moved to be nearer my family, so we would go for coffee pretty much on a weekly basis. We went to concerts and shows together, we had a love of similar things.He would ring and ask if I'd like to go for a cuppa, just small things but I could talk to him about things I rarely spoke about to anyone else.
I tell myself no one can miss him more than his widow, so I do spend time with her as we get on very well, but it isn't the same as having him there.
Thankyou for starting this thread as it helps to express the deep sadness I feel at the loss of my life's companion and my irreplaceable friend. My lovely brother I was so lucky to have beside me all my life.

MissA

Do you have a Cruise group near you? or maybe go into a local church and ask to speak to a member of the clergy.. it is such a relief to be able to talk.. I hope you can find someone soon..

No, it doesn't ever end - it changes you forever, but who on earth would want to listen to me banging on about it, year in, year out?

I miss my mum, too, I think I appreciate her more now she's dead.

Sounds daft, but it's only now I think of how she just kept soldiering on until she wore out.

I'm so sorry about your daughter, MissAdventure,

My best friend from school and throughout my life died 2 years ago. I miss her.

Life can be so very sad

MissA sending a big hug ❤️I remember when your daughter died such a difficult time and it never ends does it ?
Quite different because they were old but I still miss my mum and Dad so much and it’s 12 years but I can still break down and cry ( like now) when I think of them
If we could just have them back for an hour to hold them and love them
Take care xx