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Bereavement

Death of 12 day old Grandson

(52 Posts)
Cossy Thu 26-Sept-24 11:49:47

I’m so so sorry for you all, terrible and tragic loss.

All you can do atm is to support your daughter from afar, it’s so raw and she’ll be utterly devastated and still taking it all on board.

I send love, best wishes and condolences to you all flowers

Mandy45 Thu 26-Sept-24 11:47:46

Hi my daughter gave birth to my grandson after 23 weeks 4 days gestation, he survived for 12 days in the NICU.
My daughter has a supportive partner.
It is now a week since the baby died.
My daughter won't allow us to call to see her, refuses to discuss anything about a funeral,although I do know a funeral director has been.
She is so angry, and I'm at a loss as to how to help her. I'm grieving for my grandson and hurting for my daughter, any advice would be appreciated as how to help my daughter and myself.