Still brokenhearted

Oh Doodle. 😢
My thoughts are with you this afternoon. x

Doodle, my condolences too. My lovely husband died 5 months ago and I miss him terribly. I’m sure our tears are part of the grieving process but for you today is a very special day, and a very sad one.
I always enjoy reading your balanced posts so do keep coming on to Gransnet. You know you are with friends on here.

Doodle ❤️

I am so sorry, life must be so hard, and you put on such a good front when you are on GN, my condolences.

It is indeed a long lonely road, and just as you think you might just be ready to throw away the map, something comes along and kicks the legs out from under you; a photo, hearing his voice on a bit of video, songs he used to sing have tears coursing down your cheeks. But it’s part of the healing process. It’s very early days; let it take you where it will for now.
Thinking of you💐

Oh, my dear, Doodle.

I know exactly how you feel, and I am so sad reading your post.

It is now 18 months since my husband died, and I have got past weeping copiously every day, or even every other day, but there are still days where I sit crying over little things, memories, I don't need to go on, as you know what I mean.

Give yourself time. How long it takes is different from person to person, but my experience is that some kind of peace creeps in. Perhaps contentment will come in time too, who knows?

I am so glad to hear you have family and friends who care and help.

But it is a lonely road we are treadingm so keep in touch.

Hugs for you. It’s a difficult journey.

A year is so short a time.

Have you considered grief counselling?

What you are experiencing is completely normal.

Sending condolences & a huge hug 🤗

The day my DH died is firmly planted in my brain. For you it is still very raw Doodle and I remember how painful it was.
So sorry you are feeling so sad today. Telling you it will ease as time goes on doesn't help I know. 💐

I hope that you can take comfort from the love that you shared. It is a precious thing to love and be loved - but grief is the price you pay.

Thank you all 💕

I am so sorry that you are struggling with your grief. You must have found 'the one' and had a lovely marriage. I know that is of little comfort to you.

Anniversaries of this kind are hard to bear but I am sure your darling man would not wish you to be so sad.

So sorry Doodle - a lovely comforting quote ..

My condolences

A year is nothing to mourn a loved one

Take all the time you need

Doodle great big cyber hugs from me, grief is so individual nobody else can appreciate your feelings, but you keep taking things a day at a time and the weight will get easier to bear 💐

So sorry Doodle anniversaries can be hellish can't they. I'm sure many people on here can relate to your feelings today. We are thinking of you and sending love.

I send my condolences Doodle.