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RIP Himself 💙

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FriedGreenTomatoes2 Sun 22-Feb-26 17:30:02

My darling husband of 52 years died in the hospice yesterday afternoon.

My heart is broken today.

This bravest of men suffered dreadfully with progression of his oesophageal cancer these last 10 months I can’t begin to tell you what he had to endure.

He was admitted to the Christie early in January and thence by ambulance to hospice for his last two weeks of life. I stayed by his side for this past month, sleeping in a recliner chair by his bedside.

My overwhelming emotion at present is relief that he has been released from his struggle. He had 3 oesophageal stents in situ. I am glad that he wasn’t in any pain at the end of his life.

That was always his biggest fear and I’m so grateful he was at least spared that fate.

He once promised me, months ago now, that when he died he was going to “take all this sadness with me and leave you to the joy of living”.

I’m holding you to that promise my most brave and valiant man. My life will never be the same, I will miss you so very much, but I will try my very best to stay strong ~ as you urged me be. 💕

Thank you to all who have kept us in your hearts and prayers during this pilgrimage. I’ve read GN most days and know how blessed I have been to have so much outpouring of friendship and love. I’ve been quite humbled to be honest. Xxx

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keepcalmandcavachon Sun 22-Feb-26 18:35:53

So sorry FGT, sending you my love flowers x

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Magenta8 Sun 22-Feb-26 18:31:30

No words just a big (((((hug))))) from me.thanks

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gillgran Sun 22-Feb-26 18:29:51

Heartfelt condolences dear FGT. x flowersx

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Marg75 Sun 22-Feb-26 18:28:17

So very sorry to hear your sad news about Himself, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very sad time. With love x

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crazyH Sun 22-Feb-26 18:27:32

So sorry FGT flowers

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Anniebach Sun 22-Feb-26 18:26:18

So sorry, my deepest sympathy to you

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Bellasnana Sun 22-Feb-26 18:25:31

Such sad news.😞
As I said when my own DH died, his pain is over but yours is just beginning.
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family, and a big hug from me to you. Rest in peace Himself, you fought so bravely.💔

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Grannydaisy1 Sun 22-Feb-26 18:23:48

Oh fgt2 I am really sorry. I haven't got the words to say but you have been in my thoughts. Now he is at peace and pain free. Take care

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Casdon Sun 22-Feb-26 18:23:15

So sorry to hear your sad news FGT2, my deepest sympathy to you.

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Grandmabatty Sun 22-Feb-26 18:23:01

I'm so sorry to hear that your Dear Man has died. He was a star and I wish I had known him in real life. Take comfort that you were with him to the end. Condolences to you all.

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NoodleNut Sun 22-Feb-26 18:22:41

So sorry to read this, my thoughts are with you.

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Yiayia4 Sun 22-Feb-26 18:20:17

So very sorry FGT.He fought so hard and you are such a brave strong lady.Take comfort in your little family and so many happy memories.
Love always❤️

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Jaxjacky Sun 22-Feb-26 18:15:22

As always, my love 🥀 xx

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Gagagran Sun 22-Feb-26 18:15:12

Such very sad news FGT and my heartfelt sympathy is with you and your family. I have said a prayer for you and your DH every night and will continue to do so. May he Rest in Peace.

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kittylester Sun 22-Feb-26 18:13:23

FGT that was a brave and loving post. Sending you lots of gentle hugs.

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Georgesgran Sun 22-Feb-26 18:11:41

Wonderful words from Grandmafrench. She said it all.
Sincere condolences FGT
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Aveline Sun 22-Feb-26 18:11:01

So sorry FGT. What a whirlwind of emotions you must be feeling just now. Take comfort from his kind, wise words and knowing that he's not suffering any longer. You must be exhausted too.
Very best wishes.

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Alygran Sun 22-Feb-26 18:10:57

fgt my deepest sympathy to you and your lovely family. I am so sorry to hear this news. Love and prayers 🌹

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Annapops Sun 22-Feb-26 18:09:37

So sorry to hear your sad news. The love you both have for one another will never die. X

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Witzend Sun 22-Feb-26 18:09:29

I’m so very sorry, FGT. ❤️💐
Please take the very best care of yourself, as I’m sure your dear dh would wish. xx

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RosiesMawagain Sun 22-Feb-26 18:07:17

A brave post FGT - sending my personal condolences, a hand hold and the gentlest of hugs flowers

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Baggs Sun 22-Feb-26 18:05:23

So sorry, FGT. It is hard but you are strong. I'm glad he is out of pain and discomfort at last. Much love xx

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Grannyme6 Sun 22-Feb-26 18:04:03

With deepest sympathy, dear FGT.

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TillyTrotter Sun 22-Feb-26 18:01:55

No words dear fgt but tears are falling. For what you and your darling man endured.
You were there by his side “in sickness and in health” as we all promise to be.
I’m deeply sad for you and all your family xxx

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Pittcity Sun 22-Feb-26 18:01:12
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Sending a big hug from Essex to Urmston.

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