Do today's couples invest too much in their weddings? We hear from gransnetter egraham1960 on the vast differences between today's nuptials and her own, 36 years ago.
egraham1960
Are today's weddings a waste of money?
Posted on: Fri 04-Dec-15 14:06:35
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As I begin preparations for my fifth (and last, thank goodness) wedding this year, my thoughts turn to the preparations I was making 36 years ago for my own upcoming nuptials.
1. We booked it three months before the date we wanted to get married, none of this four years before malarkey!
2. My hen do was in a local nightclub...on a Monday...four days before the wedding. No foreign weekend away for us.
3. I booked my flowers the day before, from a local market stall! (Wasn't even going to have any, but my mother thought I'd better had!).
4. My wedding presents included monogrammed his and hers towels; (which I still have); nylon pillow cases (which I never used); Pyrex dishes (still bloody brilliant to this day) and Ravenhead glasses. No money towards a honeymoon climbing Kilimanjaro or whale watching in the Maldives.
My hen do was in a local nightclub...on a Monday...four days before the wedding.
5. I booked our honeymoon from an advert in The Sunday Post (a very popular Scottish newspaper, which features Oor Wullie and The Broons - a must read for the whole family!) - a week in an apartment in Torquay. Sure, it was the inspiration for Fawlty Towers, but it was £84 for both of us!
6. On the morning of my wedding I travelled on the bus to the hairdresser's for my Farrah Fawcett flick hair do.
7. I did my own make-up. I remember I used pink eyeshadow, thinking it was more 'weddingy' than my usual green smear!
8. My mother, mother-in-law and I made the buffet for the evening party ourselves. I was still boiling eggs at midnight!
9. And lastly, we did do something that is very 'in' at the moment. We got married abroad! We crossed the border into Gretna Green.
I wonder if all this money and time spent on weddings makes the couple any happier, or is simple better? Whatever, I am pleased that couples still decide to make the commitment, and am looking forward to the wedding of our niece - and wearing the dress that cost more than my entire wedding!