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The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry - now the book club thread!

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dahlia Sun 07-Apr-13 20:45:09

This may have been covered elsewhere - sorry in advance if this is the case. I've just finished "The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry" and found it the most unusual and moving book. I'm sure other Gransnet members have enjoyed it too. It's a long time since I was moved to tears more than once by a book, which at the same time was also funny in parts. Has anyone else read it?

cazthebookworm Fri 31-May-13 18:28:54

I too received a copy of "The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry," so thank you for that GN. I thoroughly enjoyed it and could not put it down, I finished it in three sittings.
What a lovely heartwarming story it is, it restored my faith in human nature, if only there were more characters like him in the world, or perhaps there are and I just haven't met them. He and Maureen seemed almost real and I believe that people similar to them do exist in that sort of complicated relationship which needs something to set them free.
I wonder how Rachel Joyce got the idea for the book and if she knows anyone who actually gave her the inspiration? They say authors base their stories on things they know as well as their creativity.
I shall read it again and enjoy it just as much and then I shall pass it around for my friends to share.
Thank you.

annemac101 Fri 31-May-13 21:05:35

I've not managed to read this yet but hoping to start it tonight.I've heard really good reports about it so can't wait to get into it.

sarah2000h Fri 31-May-13 21:16:24

Has anyone else been so impulsive and what have they done?

Milly Sat 01-Jun-13 20:01:53

Thank you Gransnet for my copy of Harold Fry.
I have just finished it, with many tears, as unfortunately I too have been
looking back on mistakes made over the last 78 years.
Babba you ask if such unhappiness exists in Marriage, I am glad you have
not experienced it yourself. I berate myself quite a lot these days over
past failings now I am widowed, and Maureen I expect is replicated quite a lot - I hope its not just me.
Enough of that, it was a lovely book, and when I started it I was reminded
of "Mr. Finchley discovers his England" by Victor Canning, and also "The
History of Mr. Polly" but as I got further into the book and especially
toward the end I realized that this was a much more thoughtful, and,
unfortunately, true to life book.
I hope the Radio Play is repeated as I would like to hear that.
The questions in the back are interesting, did Rachel Joyce have Book
Clubs in mind when writing this?
just me.

Milly Sat 01-Jun-13 20:03:24

PS I dont know where the extra "just me" came from at the end!
I dont usually sign myself off like that!

DavidH22 Mon 03-Jun-13 09:57:37

Found this a wonderful, engrossing read which must allude to every emotion known to man. Most people's lives are touched by cancer and having had some experience of hospice visiting I found the care described in the book very similar to what I saw.
Can I ask Ms Joyce whether the passages inside the hospice are from her research, personal experience or is it her fiction? And were you surprised at the success of the book, both critically and in sales terms?

Pittcity Mon 03-Jun-13 10:04:35

I was reading this while on holiday last week, put it down and my husband picked it up...he loved it and we both recognised things in our relationship that reflected that of Harold and Maureen.

He too thought that deck shoes could not be resoled.

We both loved the book and were surprised by the revelation about David near the end...it explained a lot.

We were both a little disappointed at the ending, I would have run away with Rex if I was Maureen!!

I wonder if Rachel had always intended this ending or if she had any alternatives in mind?

Maddysgrandma Mon 03-Jun-13 11:02:56

How did you decide to use a head and neck cancer in the story? I am really interested to know -as many women miss the signs because we are always looking for a lump in the breast and not on the head. I really loved the story. I think Queenie's life could be a whole other book. She was portrayed as plain but she was the most interesting character to me. Especially at the end. I am glad that this book spotlights head and neck cancers in women (even though I wish she survived! ) I had to put the book down for a moment when the tumour was being described and how they had to cut into her spine. This is so true about head and neck cancer, they have to be cut out, radiation tends not to work. I am a head and neck rare cancer survivor-it came out of the blue, you always think of breast and ovarian cancer if you are a woman.

Clytie Mon 03-Jun-13 11:46:48

I haven't read this yet but I think I must get a copy.

My question to Ms Joyce is, what is your favourite part of the book?

GeraldineGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 03-Jun-13 12:59:32

We're delighted that Rachel Joyce has joined us at GNHQ. She's tee'd up with some special Gransnet sarnies and ready, so here we go...

hokeypokey Mon 03-Jun-13 13:01:07

Hi Rachel,

One of the things I liked most about the book was the way you eked out the plot and the revelations about the past. Was that difficult to do (did it take a lot of planning)?

closetgran Mon 03-Jun-13 13:02:33

Hello Rachel, my question is: is it very different, writing for radio and writing a novel? Did you carry over anything you'd learnt from writing for radio?

RachelJoyce Mon 03-Jun-13 13:03:15

DavidH22

Found this a wonderful, engrossing read which must allude to every emotion known to man. Most people's lives are touched by cancer and having had some experience of hospice visiting I found the care described in the book very similar to what I saw.
Can I ask Ms Joyce whether the passages inside the hospice are from her research, personal experience or is it her fiction? And were you surprised at the success of the book, both critically and in sales terms?

Hello David

Thank you for your moving comment. In answer to your questions I wrote this book as a tribute to my father who died of cancer of the head and neck. He spent time in Intensive Care but died at home. By the end of his life his tumour was the size of a ball and growing out of his face. This is why I had to write Queenie's story the way that I have, so the descriptions of the hospice are a combination - as with most things in the book - of what I know and what I imagined.

The success of the book has completely floored me, I didn't see it coming at all.

batgran Mon 03-Jun-13 13:04:10

Are you a great walker yourself (or is the dedication metaphorical)?

RachelJoyce Mon 03-Jun-13 13:05:59

Treebee

I loved this book for many reasons, especially for its simplicity and healing ending.
2 questions from my book group discussions.
A couple of readers couldn't get past Harold's unsuitable footwear. They thought he couldn't possibly have done the walk wearing them so this made them dislike the whole book. Was there a reason for this? (I thought it meant he came as he was...)
Also , why make Queenie so disabled that she couldn't communicate with Harold? Would it have been too pat for her to put the past right with him?
Look forward to reading Rachel's answers.

Hello Treebee

Thank you for your comment. The reason I chose deck shoes was because my father always wore them and it made me laugh because he hated the sea. The point about not wearing walking boots is that Harold's journey is unplanned. He sets off in the clothes you would wear to post a letter. But one of the things his journey teaches him is that we don't need the 'stuff' to do things.

RachelJoyce Mon 03-Jun-13 13:07:12

closetgran

Hello Rachel, my question is: is it very different, writing for radio and writing a novel? Did you carry over anything you'd learnt from writing for radio?

Hello closetgran

I've learnt a lot from writing for radio, but one of the most important things for me is the significance of story. In radio no matter how beautiful a scene, you can only keep it if it advances the plotline. I think that's a very important thing to learn.

crostini Mon 03-Jun-13 13:07:35

I was fascinated by the echoes of Pilgrim's Progress, especially as Harold wasn't religious.

Were you saying something there? (about the importance of what we think of as religious symbolism, maybe?)

RachelJoyce Mon 03-Jun-13 13:08:25

mrsmopp

Delighted with this book, characters well drawn; the book is very easy to read and I am whizzing through it because I want to see what happens when Harold reaches the end of his journey.
It is sensitively written, amusing in parts and also very funny in parts too. It would make a good movie too I think.
Who could we get to play Harold? Any suggestions?

Hello mrsmopp

I'm really glad you enjoyed the book and that it made you laugh. The film rights have been bought and the script is being written. Have you heard Jim Broadbent reading the audio book? He breaks my heart. Who do you think?

RachelJoyce Mon 03-Jun-13 13:10:09

j08

Loved this book. Best one I've read in a long time. I think it was interesting the way he had difficulty in facing difficult emotions, burying them under the carpet and only being able to face up to them when he finds the space and peace of the open road.

Do you think he would have gone on his journey if the garage girl had told him that her aunt had, actually, died?

Hello j08

Yes, I'm very interested in difficult emotion that we bury because it is just too hard or painful to deal with it. The garage girl definitely plays a significant part in Harold's journey. For me it takes a number of things to fall into place and make one thing happen.

getmehrt Mon 03-Jun-13 13:11:54

I thought it was interesting that you decided to write about an older person. It is not very fashionable even though older people of course have lived very rich lives. I wondered why you decided to do that and whether you have any thoughts about why the majority of novels throughout history have been about young people?

RachelJoyce Mon 03-Jun-13 13:12:09

batgran

Are you a great walker yourself (or is the dedication metaphorical)?

Hello batgran

I am a big walker myself. I live in the middle of countryside and this morning, for instance, I was out at 5.30 feeding ducks and hens and lambs and walking the dog. The light was extraordinary and I feel very lucky that I live like this. The dedication is to my husband who walks with me both metaphorically and literally.

RachelJoyce Mon 03-Jun-13 13:13:51

Mads

Found the couple quite sad though in the beginning but it was a brilliant read, so compelling and I was willing him to finish his walk. Got cross with all the hangers on though. I will read it again in the future.

Hello Mads

Oh, I agree with you. I hate the hangers on. They get in the way and they don't understand Harold's journey. You're not supposed to like them but I had to include them because I felt that without them both Harold and the reader would stay in a bubble. The truth is, I think, that we come across people in life who don't always understand us and we have to work out how to deal with them.

extremesport Mon 03-Jun-13 13:14:03

Is it difficult to follow a book that has had such very great success?

RachelJoyce Mon 03-Jun-13 13:17:25

Milly

Thank you Gransnet for my copy of Harold Fry.
I have just finished it, with many tears, as unfortunately I too have been
looking back on mistakes made over the last 78 years.
Babba you ask if such unhappiness exists in Marriage, I am glad you have
not experienced it yourself. I berate myself quite a lot these days over
past failings now I am widowed, and Maureen I expect is replicated quite a lot - I hope its not just me.
Enough of that, it was a lovely book, and when I started it I was reminded
of "Mr. Finchley discovers his England" by Victor Canning, and also "The
History of Mr. Polly" but as I got further into the book and especially
toward the end I realized that this was a much more thoughtful, and,
unfortunately, true to life book.
I hope the Radio Play is repeated as I would like to hear that.
The questions in the back are interesting, did Rachel Joyce have Book
Clubs in mind when writing this?
just me.

Hello Milly

When I wrote the book I was really only thinking of a story that moved me. I was thinking of my dad too, so it was a very personal thing to write, but since it's been published and I've been doing events and meeting people, book clubs have been discussed. I'm still really moved by the things that people say to me as a result of having read the book. It was unexpected that strangers would open up to me in this way.

RachelJoyce Mon 03-Jun-13 13:18:27

j08

Excellent start! A verse of my favourite hymn on the front page!

#truevaloursee. smile

hello j08

It's one of my favourite hymns too! In the radio play Niamh Cusack sang it unaccompanied and it was moving.