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Throwing a book in the bin !

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dogsmother Tue 30-May-23 15:42:10

Camberwell Beauty by Jenny Eclair.
I bought it in a charity shop, began reading and got to a bit about a baby and was so disturbed by the writing I put the book in the bin. Has any one ever had a reaction like this?

HannahLoisLuke Thu 01-Jun-23 13:08:09

Oh Eazybee that made me laugh, an adult version of the Famous Five, how super!

Fairislecable, I also ploughed throughShantaran and wished I hadn’t bothered. I read somewhere that Johnny Depp wanted to turn it into a film but don’t remember him actually doing it..

biglouis Thu 01-Jun-23 13:03:51

The only books I ever threw away were ones I bought as part of an auction lot and some were falling to pieces. They did have nice illustrations and adverts in them so I sold those pages separately on Ebay.

lilydily9 Thu 01-Jun-23 12:59:37

I attended an evening at a local venue where Jenny Eclair was promoting her book, Life, Death and Vanilla Slices. She was quite entertaining. Afterwards, we could buy the book and get it signed. She asked the lady ahead of me in the queue how to spell her name so when it came to my turn, I said 'Linda with an i". She jumped down my throat saying 'Well I know how to spell that!". As my name can be spelt Lynda, I was only being helpful or so I thought! I read about 5 pages of the book and lost interest, having no inclination to know the outcome of the story. Took it to a charity shop.

DrWatson Thu 01-Jun-23 12:57:07

This is a disgraceful comment!! Various books have been nominated as terrible, shocking, depressing, etc.

Who are YOU to decide what others might think, or feel? Just because YOU are shocked, or think the author is lousy, doesn't mean others will -- it's a really arrogant view.

Give them to charity shops, or these days many places have an informal 'Community' library.

Pippa22 Thu 01-Jun-23 12:53:23

Jenny Eclair has a house in Camberwell but it’s no beauty. Sounds as I& the book isn’t either !

suelld Thu 01-Jun-23 12:37:25

I usually get through all books I start but nowadays I’m pretty sure I like them before starting,,, like others I give them to charity or friends when finished. But currently I’m struggling to finish my current book which is unusual = not sure if it’s apathy or? But it’s a sure sign the book isn’t a page turner as often I can’t wait to get to bed to get on with one…!

Nannashirlz Thu 01-Jun-23 12:34:05

If i don’t like a book I always pass it on to charity shop because just because I didn’t like it doesn’t mean someone else won’t

suelld Thu 01-Jun-23 12:33:27

Mom3

I ripped apart a couple books by a psychologist who was a super Christian anti-gay bigot who admired TRump. It felt good to throw them away.

Trump - yuck!

FannyCornforth Thu 01-Jun-23 12:33:04

Great post Monica! smile
And that book sounds fabulous.
My dad is a huge Austen fan, he’d enjoy that.
What’s the title / author please?

DamaskRose Thu 01-Jun-23 12:32:08

M0nica

Matelda you are assuming that people would buy a new book if a secondhand version wasn't availble, but I doubt that is so.

The market for new books and second hand books is entirely difference. Most new books are bought by someone who specifically wants that book, yes people do browse in new book shops, but usually to either wince at the price and put it back or note the details and add it to their Christmas/birthday list. I am not suggesting bookshops profiteer, printing and publishing books is expensive. I also exclude chains like WH Smith selling only the top 20 best sellers in paperback only at airports and stations

Secondhand book browsing, whether in a charity shop or secondhand book shop is an entirely different way of buying books, and often for different reasons. These booksellers are places of relaxation where you run your eye over a random of collection of books on a random selection of subjects, sold, often at casual purchase prices. It is also where you can pick up out of print books, books on arcane subjects.

My most recent was a book on 19th century social dancing, written in the 1930s by a highly regarded dancing teacher , who had danced many of them in his youth. Now when I read Jane Austen, Anthony Trollope or any book by a 19th century author, when the music strikes up on a page I understand the dance and its deep significance in relation to the plot.

My library - and it is extensive - consists almost entirely of secondhand books, most long out of print, bought after long searching or a serendipitous visit to a charity shop or secondhand book shop.

The author may not get royaltie, many are dead, but the charity gets income and the secodnhand bookseller, earns a living, probably employs staff and can pull visitors into their town to shop more widely. Look at what was started in Hay-on-Wye, by just one secondhand book seller!

Completely in agreement M0nica

Applegran Thu 01-Jun-23 12:32:02

Many years ago I put a book into the bin because it was so misogynist - so demeaning to women. I cannot remember the title - but think it may have been written by father or son Amis.

DamaskRose Thu 01-Jun-23 12:30:20

Perfume by Patrick Suskind. It was a book club book and I couldn’t read beyond a few pages.

M0nica Thu 01-Jun-23 12:29:41

Matelda you are assuming that people would buy a new book if a secondhand version wasn't availble, but I doubt that is so.

The market for new books and second hand books is entirely difference. Most new books are bought by someone who specifically wants that book, yes people do browse in new book shops, but usually to either wince at the price and put it back or note the details and add it to their Christmas/birthday list. I am not suggesting bookshops profiteer, printing and publishing books is expensive. I also exclude chains like WH Smith selling only the top 20 best sellers in paperback only at airports and stations

Secondhand book browsing, whether in a charity shop or secondhand book shop is an entirely different way of buying books, and often for different reasons. These booksellers are places of relaxation where you run your eye over a random of collection of books on a random selection of subjects, sold, often at casual purchase prices. It is also where you can pick up out of print books, books on arcane subjects.

My most recent was a book on 19th century social dancing, written in the 1930s by a highly regarded dancing teacher , who had danced many of them in his youth. Now when I read Jane Austen, Anthony Trollope or any book by a 19th century author, when the music strikes up on a page I understand the dance and its deep significance in relation to the plot.

My library - and it is extensive - consists almost entirely of secondhand books, most long out of print, bought after long searching or a serendipitous visit to a charity shop or secondhand book shop.

The author may not get royaltie, many are dead, but the charity gets income and the secodnhand bookseller, earns a living, probably employs staff and can pull visitors into their town to shop more widely. Look at what was started in Hay-on-Wye, by just one secondhand book seller!

CazB Thu 01-Jun-23 12:23:33

I couldn't stand Son of Rosemary, which was the sequel to Rosemary's Baby by Ira Levin, which I couldn't put down. The sequel was so bad I couldn't believe it was the same author, I wanted to forget it as soon as possible.

Matelda Thu 01-Jun-23 12:11:55

Why is everyone so keen to take books to charity shops with never a thought for the poor authors? They have put in the hard work but won’t get any royalties, should their books happen to sell again. And if they don’t resell, then the charity shop will have to pay for disposal. Surely it is better to take a deep breath and put unwanted books out for landfill, and give an author another chance of making a sale. Our council won’t take books for recycling because of the glue in the spine.

mousemac Thu 01-Jun-23 12:10:38

I binned Jeffrey Archer. He has absolutely no talent.

margauxbordeaux Thu 01-Jun-23 12:05:48

I feel the same way. I take them to the 2nd hand shops run by Charities and also the Library. Never have binned a book.
Goes against my grain.

Nannan2 Thu 01-Jun-23 12:05:00

Oh dear such a lot of (bad) books seem to be going to the charity shops🤔I used like a browse in charity shops for a new book-now maybe not as they will mostly be full of ones no good 😐🤨

curlytops Thu 01-Jun-23 12:04:11

How terrible, throwing a book away! Give it to a charity shop they are always pleased of them.

Nannan2 Thu 01-Jun-23 11:58:06

Aw that's cute janipanssmile

Nannan2 Thu 01-Jun-23 11:56:45

MOnica- is that the Olivia Oliphant of which there's another book about? I keep seeing that listed everywhere I can buy books online- never felt the need to buy it though but it's annoying that it seems to be everywhere grin

janipans Thu 01-Jun-23 11:54:14

You could learn how to make a sort of sculpture by drawing a shape (say a heart) on the edge of the pages (opposite the spine) and then fold the pages in at the pencil mark and you get a 3D heart. At least then you will have learned something from the book! Pic of my effort attached

Saggi Thu 01-Jun-23 11:53:28

Someone found Middlemarch uninspiring and like pushing treacle uphill!?!?? I suggest you get a few Jilly Coopers….no thought needed there!🙄

Soniah Thu 01-Jun-23 11:52:39

I couldn't bin a book, I'd pass it to a charity shop where someone might find and love it

Amalegra Thu 01-Jun-23 11:49:45

Haven’t ever binned a book but they have made their way pretty quickly to the charity shop if I don’t like them! The last one I can remember was a large tome entitled ‘Desire’ which purported to be a collection of short stories about different facets of said topic. I read a couple. was disappointed in the dreary lack of imagination shown and took it to Oxfam for someone else to ‘enjoy’. The experience has not encouraged me to waste money on books that are not my usual subject choices of fact, politics and history with the occasional novel by a previously enjoyed author.