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Dick van Dyke at 94 still tap-dancing – the book that finally made me swallow my pride and get a proper rollator

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BrysonBrown Tue 25-Nov-25 09:36:48

Popped into a library the other day and came out with Dick van Dyke’s Keep Moving. Thought it would be a bit of light celebrity fluff, but two wet afternoons later I’d finished the lot. The man’s 94, still does a bit of a soft-shoe shuffle, and talks more sense about ageing than most doctors I’ve met.

One chapter in particular hit home. He says when a stick is no longer enough and you’re wobbling like a jelly on a plate, switching to a decent rollator with a seat and proper brakes isn’t “giving in”, it’s giving yourself your life back. I laughed out loud because I only made the change myself last year and honestly wish I’d done it five years sooner. Suddenly the high street, the park, even the grandchildren’s school plays were possible again without arriving half-dead or terrifying the family.

If any of you fancy something uplifting that doesn’t preach, do borrow it. Has anyone else read it? Or got other books that helped you make peace with the practical side of getting older? My bedside pile is always ready for one more.

Dickens Tue 25-Nov-25 09:58:04

An informative, and uplifting, post - I'll watch this thread with interest.

And check out the book.

I'm on the 'first step' (I'm 83) - using a walking stick when outside the house...

My biggest problem at the moment, is constantly having to remind myself to walk with a straight back as opposed to leaning forward,

Allira Tue 25-Nov-25 10:14:22

My friend is trying to persuade her DH to buy a rollator, or just one of those without a seat, but he is stubbornly resisting and struggles with one walking stick, moving it forward then shuffling towards it! She is finding it (and him) very frustrating.

Perhaps I should buy him this book.

merlotgran Tue 25-Nov-25 10:14:50

My biggest problem at the moment, is constantly having to remind myself to walk with a straight back as opposed to leaning forward

I used to carry a bag on my right shoulder held against my side by my elbow.
I didn’t realise how much I was leaning forward until I switched to a cross body bag.
Having both arms free improved my balance no end and I was able to straighten up although I sometimes have to remind myself as well.

Allira Tue 25-Nov-25 10:16:14

Ps I do use a sturdy NHS stick sometimes (advice of the physiotherapist) but I'd like a prettier but sturdy one. Some of them look a bit unstable.

MiniMoon Tue 25-Nov-25 11:37:07

Dick van Dyke may have been 94 when the book was published. He is 99 now and still going strong.

teabagwoman Tue 25-Nov-25 11:50:20

I think the most important thing about choosing a stick is finding one that’s comfortable in your hand and the sturdier sticks have a larger, more comfortable grip.

merlotgran Tue 25-Nov-25 11:52:56

MiniMoon

Dick van Dyke may have been 94 when the book was published. He is 99 now and still going strong.

I knew I should have taken up tap dancing! 😳

Allira Tue 25-Nov-25 13:14:47

merlotgran

MiniMoon

Dick van Dyke may have been 94 when the book was published. He is 99 now and still going strong.

I knew I should have taken up tap dancing! 😳

I tried it in my 40s but couldn't co-ordinate arms and legs!