I think that is always the problem MA. I feel we have been very lucky, for various reasons, to find the carers we have. The gap is in how they understand - or don't - people with Alzheimer's.
We have the close gap at the weekend between lunch and evening meal. I would suggest that we leave out something cold for mum to have when she is ready in the evening but she hangs on to Wiltshire Farm Foods for lunch and WFF in the evening - it's all about feeling safe. I have no idea how we could introduce something different without a) upsetting her and b) her not eating it and me getting a call that no one has made her meal and having to go over - which would mean she was eating very late by the time I get there. As my mother would tell me when I was young - no one said it would be easy.
People eating and drinking on the go
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