silverlining48 I do belong to a carers' group and that has been fantastic. I have also joined us to every charitable organisation dealing with his condition so lots of info there and we go to meetings. It's just a couple of domestic things which actually DD wanted to be involved in and I agreed so she wouldn't feel left out by all the outside help! But it was obviously too much for her and left her - and me - feeling guilty and stressed.
Nannarose Thank you. I shall remember to say about the good and bad days because yes, this happened on a bad day so having two on my hands was just too much! DH has actually thought of a good rhyme which will be No 1 on my plan: it is exactly what happens at my carers' cafe unless we specifically ask for help -
"Don't advise, sympathise".
OldMeg Thank you, I like to be thought of sometimes as sensible!!
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