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Housebound and bored

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Charleygirl Mon 27-Aug-18 16:13:38

tanith I know that you were looking for a wheelchair- did you find one? Maybe the odd trip to the new cinema which surely has facilities for the disabled?

loopyloo Mon 27-Aug-18 16:12:08

Perhaps a day centre for a morning? Would give him a change and give you the chance to get out. Perhaps go out for a short drive each day? Does he use a wheelchair? And perhaps arrange visitors. So helpful to have a new person to talk to.
A wheel chair with solid tyres that folds easily might mean you can get further. I used to take my mother BlackBerry picking.

tanith Mon 27-Aug-18 15:31:34

Thanks everyone lots of ideas there some possible some not but at least we can talk them over.

JudyJudy12 Mon 27-Aug-18 15:26:08

He could become a volunteer with Age UK befriending service. He would be phoning lonely elderly people for a chat. It means so much to people that have nobody to speak to. You can do as much or little as you want to.

J52 Mon 27-Aug-18 15:12:58

Have you got an Alexa? You can play quizzes against each other and stop at a given time. A little treat for the winner would make it fun.
Alexa also can play dramas and tell short stories, which might help.
My GCs listen to mystery stories that let them choose the direction the story goes in. There may be an adult version.
On the more practical idea is he able and would he like to take up painting?
Hope you find something to interest you both.

Jalima1108 Mon 27-Aug-18 15:12:25

Great idea MissA
It is very absorbing and takes years - a never-ending story.

MissAdventure Mon 27-Aug-18 15:04:42

How about tracing your family tree?

Ilovecheese Mon 27-Aug-18 15:00:00

Rag rug, made of scraps, then you only have to buy the backing.

Ilovecheese Mon 27-Aug-18 14:59:11

Jigsaws?
Card games?
Those adult colouring books?
Origami?
That game where you write down the name of a famous person, then stick it on your partner's head without them seeing and then they have to guess who they are?

Jalima1108 Mon 27-Aug-18 14:58:00

DH thought he might like to make a rug.
I am keeping it in mind but the kits are quite expensive.

MissAdventure Mon 27-Aug-18 14:55:58

You could try some craft ideas, or painting?
Maybe one of you has an as yet undiscovered talent!

Jalima1108 Mon 27-Aug-18 14:53:17

Gransnet?

We need more men smile

tanith Mon 27-Aug-18 14:47:27

So my DH is pretty much housebound apart from short drives out and consequently we’re spending a lot of time together but we are both bored especially now the weather is turning. He’s happy watching some tv but there’s only so much one can watch. We do crosswords but he can’t concentrate on board games for long so any ideas for boredom relieving pastimes we can do together. He doesn’t like to read but enjoys his iPad and has Netflix for when he can’t sleep at night. Any suggestions gratefully received before we both get cabin fever.