Katyj It sounds terrible. My mum was in rehab for a long time and had the best support. Are you having team meetings?These were organised in mum's hospital. Everyone,me, mum, physio's, doctor, consultant, nursing staff and social worker were invited to attend and gave their opinion about what the next step would be. It was very useful and somewhere I could ask questions about things. If you haven't had one could you suggest to her medical staff that they call one? It sounds like your mum needs a support and care package and the social worker could do this. Good luck and hope things improve.
Anger management!!! Help needed.