I think the bed downstairs would be an idea unless as suggested you can record programmes and stop then continue upstairs. How about the sky thing that has multi rooms? For those who say why 9pm and change agencies - most have a finite finishing time, lack of carers who would do night shifts and no capacity to do this later. Alongside the same issues with Covid and Brexit that are affecting other services. No warnings with Covid, plenty ignored with Brexit. I was a nurse, my cousin just retired as a nurse. Her PiL both required agencies through NHS to care for them in the evenings as well as daily (often several times daily) help from my cousin and her DH. They had excellent carers but most of them were from EU. Most of them went home prior to Brexit. The wages are shite! The care they perform are heavy and personal and often unpleasant (personal care after incontinence). Carers who do this are in the same position as care home staff with Covid precautions and lack of PPE. My cousins PiL are now both deceased and finished their days in care homes with the same problems with lack of staff and lack of PPE. There is a HUGE problem with looking after people unable to care for themselves in the UK. I worked as a District nurse. The carers are not given adequate nursing training, not given nursing qualifications, not given professional accountability and not given a proper pay structure that follows NHS pay. The younger ones who show promise are sometimes guided into nursing by District Nurses who spot potential but older carers may be unable to do that because of family commitments etc. I have often thought we need to pay more NI to help the care system and the NHS but OMG it needs to be managed properly and I'm not sure it will be. Sorry debs4409 for going on in your thread but there are many people in your situation and people have suggested bed downstairs. So glad your Mum is able to watch her programmes and enjoy. She sounds a real character. But hey - it is hard!