Mums lonely

Give the woman a break.
She's 90!

There is only so much you can do, your mother cannot rely on others for her happiness

In fact, being needy will push people further

Another thought is if there might be a "cleaner" you could hire.
The kind that enjoys a good chat as much as keeping house.
My friend who works in home care often does "privates" (oooh matron!)
For example, she irons for someone who had her care hours reduced.
She has done it for almost 20 years now, and they are friends more than employer/employee.

I did befriending for some time. But unfortunately other commitments came along.
I had some lovely people.
I know that doesn’t help you, Katyj. Sorry. Are you in touch with her close neighbours? Maybe some of them could have a get together.
Are there any churches near that have ‘meetings’ they’re not all necessarily religious meetings, like our local one.

Miss Adventure. Thank you for the link. The phone service wouldn’t be any good as she has very poor hearing,even with aids, but the visiting service might work, especially through the winter.

Don't cancel the carers, because they are a "foot in the door", so to speak.
It's harder to get back into the system once you've removed someone from it.

Sorry forgot to say she has Carer’s three times a day too,she complains about this too saying their useless and she doesn’t need them, most days she could manage without them but she has had two falls which were she ended up in hospital for quite a while, and at 90 I’m reluctant to cancel them. I’m 64 but still working part time and look after Grandchildren in the holidays, so don’t feel able to visit anymore than I already do.

www.ageuk.org.uk/services/befriending-services/

Is there still a befriending service?
I think it may be run by age uk.

Can you arrange for a paid person to , call in , shop, or what ever is required? Best wishes .