Hi. I’m here again wondering what to do again if anything. My mum is lonely she lives alone in a flat, she’s 90 with poor mobility and doesn’t feel well quite a lot of the time, has what she calls her funny heads.
For quite a while now, every time I visit, usually twice a week, she complains bitterly that no one has been to see her, by this she means her gc and ggc , now, as you can imagine like most young people they have little time, have responsible jobs and young families. I’m an only one too which doesn’t help.
I’m wholeheartedly fed up ! Ive suggested joining a group, but no she
doesn’t want to be with the old folk.
She’s also being a nuisance now phoning her grandchildren at least twice a week wanting to know what their up to. I phone everyday, but it’s not enough she phones me back most days. I’ve been told off today because I didn’t answer her call, I was in the garden ! It’s really getting on top of me and I feel like running away. Anybody got any ideas ?
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