My elderly almost 104 year old mother is in a care home. She’s been attacked by fellow residents three times! She is constantly falling has other health issues inc many infections she’s also deaf and her vision is deteriorating. She is self funding the fees per month are £4600. The home wasn’t making money and staff shortages a big issue. On one occasion earlier this year she didn’t receive medication requested by the hospital and consequently contracted pneumonia and almost died. I brought in CQC who investigated everything and their report stated all across the board red flagged inadequate. Last week I attended a meeting after I applied for continuing health care. I sat through a rigorous three hour meeting and was disgusted when falls were mentioned and the assessor asked a senior carer to provide her with a list of all her falls. The assessor looked snd said she’s not had enough falls! I said in that case does she have to fall every single day to qualify in your ‘Falls League table’. I have requested minutes of that meeting to date had nothing. Total waste of time and yes I agree the nhs isn’t good looking after our elderly.
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