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Homeshare, Age UK. Anyone involved in this scheme?

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boheminan Tue 13-Aug-24 09:16:24

I've a spare bedroom, get rather lonely and now find it hard to do some household jobs.

Homeshare sounds the ideal solution, but I feel wary of going ahead, as on the one hand it may be a way towards overcoming loneliness/impending physical problems, but on the other, it feels a huge commitment.

Does anyone have experience of this scheme? The pros/the cons?

boheminan Wed 14-Aug-24 22:21:29

Wow! thank you for the responses, the thread had fallen off the bottom, so I thought no one was interested.

I'm divided on this scheme. I like the idea of filling my empty bedroom with someone who needs somewhere to live but I worry about the finances/responsibilities. I'm on benefits and wouldn't be able to cope if they were withdrawn. It seems the householder (me) pays Homeshare £140 a month admin costs, which does seem a lot, and the 'lodger' pays £200 and a month + up to 10 hours home help a week, so I end up with £60 a month, plus 10 hours work, which would be useful (but I don't know how that stands if the lodger's working).

I'm going round in circles with this, and appreciate your input

I feel mean worrying about the financial side of things and having a big half empty house to myself...and there will be more overheads, ie: heating throughout the house in the winter, more use of hot water, gas.

boheminan Wed 14-Aug-24 22:22:40

PS: It's run by Age UK

NotSpaghetti Thu 15-Aug-24 06:23:29

boheminan I think it is means-tested.

supportmatch.co.uk/

OldFrill Thu 15-Aug-24 06:47:39

boheminan

PS: It's run by Age UK

Age UK have their own local Homeshare organisations but there are various other organisations/charities that offer the same/similar Homeshare opportunities.
List available here - l think there are others not affiliated with Homeshare UK too
homeshareuk.org/homeshare-areas-coverage-map/

NotSpaghetti Thu 15-Aug-24 07:16:54

A charity I worked for years ago had a scheme like this. It wasn't widely known about but was apparently more closely monitored and supported than was the norm.

I remember comparing several different schemes (ours and others).

I have no idea which are still running or which is the best.

Allsorts Thu 15-Aug-24 07:21:45

Very short reply as I couldn't go it, my home is my sanctuary, I would have to find another way to get help around the home. I saw what hapoened to my neighbour, he had a young woman move in, followed shortly by her horrible boyfriends smoking dope. It was a nightmare.

4allweknow Thu 15-Aug-24 10:34:14

If as said, its monitored by social services, it's a definite no from me. The state of local authorities nowadays is abysmal.

MissAdventure Thu 15-Aug-24 10:42:39

Allsorts

Very short reply as I couldn't go it, my home is my sanctuary, I would have to find another way to get help around the home. I saw what hapoened to my neighbour, he had a young woman move in, followed shortly by her horrible boyfriends smoking dope. It was a nightmare.

Oh well...

MissAdventure Thu 15-Aug-24 10:44:12

Ooh sorry, I didn't mean to quote you!!
Bad day with my hands and fingers.

pascal30 Thu 15-Aug-24 10:47:08

4allweknow

If as said, its monitored by social services, it's a definite no from me. The state of local authorities nowadays is abysmal.

People are saying it is run by Age Uk which I have always found to be helpful.. not social services

Whiff Thu 15-Aug-24 10:47:32

bohemian have you thought about downsizing. I know it's a lot of work and worry but I moved from a big 3 bed over 100 miles away 5 years ago and don't regret it for a minute. I live in a 2 bed bungalow front and back gardens drive and garage my rooms aren't small my living room is 19' 8" x 14' x 11" wide . On water meter in my old house my water bill was £160+ as no water meters here it's £28 a month ,heating bills are cheaper and no heat lost going up stairs,combi boiler so only heating what water I need as I had a tank in my old house . Plus cost of living is cheaper here. But the biggest plus is the healthcare is excellent.

Visgir1 Thu 15-Aug-24 10:55:25

My friend was tge "Lodger" in something similar. She worked in London but had her own Flat in another City. She was sleeping in the House Mon - Thursday. It was an older Lady who loved having her there, I believe her family were happy with my mate living there, they became good chums.
Worked out well for both of them. My mate was there for a few years but she eventually gave up her job in London.
Not sure if her 'Landlady " got another person in.

NotSpaghetti Thu 15-Aug-24 10:56:21

I suppose, Whiff, the OP is looking for companionship and some help.

MissAdventure Thu 15-Aug-24 11:04:25

I would certainly consider it.
It makes perfect sense to me.

SporeRB Thu 15-Aug-24 13:10:19

When DH was single, he had a lodger - an acquaintance of his.

On day there was a knock on the door, it was the bank manager. The lodger told the bank manager that he was the owner and DH was the tenant and he was trying to get a loan against DH’s house.

If you want to go down that route, make sure that if there is any problem, Homeshare or Age UK will step in and resolve the problem for you.

MadeInYorkshire Thu 15-Aug-24 14:05:59

I have looked into the 'Rent a Room Scheme' as I have 2 spare double bedrooms and am struggling to pay my bill now my daughter has died. I haven't had any heating on for the last 2 winters.

However, despite there being a desperate housing shortage, the DWP would only let me keep £25 a week of the income! That definitely wouldn't cover the Council Tax and heating!!!

Also looked into having someone from Ukraine - that's even worse, you have to sponsor them to come!

So it's a no, no from me!

MissAdventure Thu 15-Aug-24 14:18:57

Wow, that's not much!!

MadeInYorkshire Thu 15-Aug-24 14:51:23

MissAdventure

Wow, that's not much!!

Exactly! I'm on my own, socially isolated and rattling around in a house that I can't manage with a garden I can't manage - have just had a look at the 'Homeshare' schemes, but it seems you have to pay out up to £250 a month to join etc so that's impossible too!

I am STUCK!

grannysyb Thu 15-Aug-24 14:58:16

I used to deliver books for our local library. I remember a lady who had MS had lodgers. They were generally students who gave a few hours help each week in return for cheap rent ,I think it wasrun by a charity. I think it's a good idea. If you're a taxpayer you can get up to about £ 4700 per annum tax free under the rent a room scheme .

pascal30 Thu 15-Aug-24 16:57:57

MadeInYorkshire

I have looked into the 'Rent a Room Scheme' as I have 2 spare double bedrooms and am struggling to pay my bill now my daughter has died. I haven't had any heating on for the last 2 winters.

However, despite there being a desperate housing shortage, the DWP would only let me keep £25 a week of the income! That definitely wouldn't cover the Council Tax and heating!!!

Also looked into having someone from Ukraine - that's even worse, you have to sponsor them to come!

So it's a no, no from me!

MadeinYorkshire are you sure you should be paying council tax? I t might be worth talking to Age UK to see if they can find out if you are entitled to any other benefits..

womblekelly Fri 23-Aug-24 13:03:01

Migration Yorkshire are looking for people to have Ukrainians who are already here and who need to move because their original sponsors can longer house them. My Ukrainian guests have been with me for nearly 2 years now and it has been a very positive experience. The amount you receive is £350/for first 12 months and £500/month after that. Doesn’t affect your council tax single person discount and isn’t taxed. Not sure if it affects benefits though.

EsanKay Mon 21-Apr-25 00:53:51

Living with a lodger or helper is almost like getting into a relationship. It's a give and take, and every party needs to understand themselves. The problem with most people is they don't even know themselves, hence they can't judge who's a right lodger or homesharer. If you're too sensitive about little things then any sort of relationship might not be for you, because you'll hurt yourself and others. The character of being accommodating is something most people are losing today, hence the rate of relationship break ups. If you lack a bit of tolerance, don't do it - don't take a lodger.