Lathyrus3
Looking at the link, I don’t think that’s right ferry. Managing tasks like paying bills and takng to appointments etc is included.
Log your hours for a week or so OP and include everything that you do connected to your fathers well-being. Present with him or not. You might get find it comes to more than 35 hrs.
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Quite right Lathyrus3. Dealing with correspondence on their behalf, making phonecalls for them, taking to appointments (hairdresser, GP, hospital, dentist etc), dropping off at day centres, libraries or social events they could not get to without you. Extra cooking meals to be frozen can take hours.
The thing with caring is all these bits and pieces add up. You might go round to prepare a meal and end up being a listening ear for their problems and you have been there all morning and you only need 5 hours a day for 35 hrs to be clocked up. Then of course, you might get called out in the evening or night due to a fall or other emergency.