henetha If you see a home you like, see if you can go on a waiting list.
My aunt knew that she would need residential care if her DH predeceased her, so she had been to see some homes, liked one and put her name on a list. She soon reached the top of it and knew that if she did need care she would get the next available room. As it happened she died first, so never needed to go into a care home.
Quite separately i have told my children never to put me in a home that takes people paod for by the state. Nothing to do with snobbishness or anything, but as Liz46 points out self financing residents pay higher fees to subsidise those supported by the state.
I have never objected to paying all the tax I am due to pay, and on similar matters of principle I am happy to pay Inheritance tax and would never try to dispose of money so that my care is state aided. But I really, really object to these effectively personalised taxes inflicted on small groups of helpless residents in care homes that depend on them to pay extra to subsidise the state financed residents.