Hi. My mum was very similar to this, she always refused to get up in a morning so we agreed to leave her until lunchtime, she would get up when they’d gone then get herself ready by around 3pm.
Is your mum able to get herself dressed all be it in her own time ? It’s all very frustrating we were paying for carers four times a day which seemed a waste, but I, being an only one found it reassuring to know someone was popping if only to check she hadn’t fallen.
This went on a couple of years and unfortunately she had many falls and hospital stays, then developed dementia and had to go into a care home aged 92.
I would visit your mum less often. Let her get used to the carers helping her. I never did personal care and visited 4 times a week.
Mum did accept them eventually, it ment I could still work, look after my Grandchildren and go on holiday, very important. She never forgave me though.
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