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dorsetpennt Sun 11-Sept-11 16:30:16

This little tiny mark of our grammer is the most misused ever and it's becoming worse. I've seen it on this web site over and over again. It's one of my major hates, maybe it doesn't matter to some, but it should matter as it is part of our language. Are people really ignorant about it's usage or just plain lazy.
The apostrophe:
It marks the omission of one or more letters ie: do not to don't - as above it's instead of it is.
or:
It marks the possesive case ie: the cat's whiskers, my sister's watch or my sisters' watches.
Not apple's for sale , other peoples live's etc etc.
Am I being pedantic? Maybe but we can't [see instead of cannot] expect young people to write correctly if we fail them by this simple usage of the apostrophe being used incorrectly.

Twobabes Mon 12-Sept-11 12:12:27

em, that apostrophe before any final s is not new! It was rife in pupils' work, and in notes from parents, when I started teaching in the 60s and it remains persistent. Must admit that I enjoy teaching the correct use and seeing the light dawn, particularly with adults who thought they'd never get it. smile

em Mon 12-Sept-11 12:22:13

Agree, twobabes. Maybe I'm just becoming even more aware of the fact that so many adults do this. I was more ready to accept it in younger children as part of the learning process. It shows we can't be too smug about teaching grammar a few years ago after all. Clearly, at least some of the time, we didn't get through then either.

Twobabes Mon 12-Sept-11 13:06:14

Oops! Forgot my smile asterisks last time. smile

Twobabes Mon 12-Sept-11 13:07:56

Think my keyboard is jinxed. Or maybe, just maybe, it's me. Third time lucky? smile

Twobabes Mon 12-Sept-11 13:09:16

Nope, def not me. I'll stop trying to smile. It's obviously not meant to be.

Twobabes Mon 12-Sept-11 13:10:36

Yes, it is me - didn't use correct key. blush

em Mon 12-Sept-11 13:11:25

Well twobabes, you did make me smile. I'm not too good with these smiley things, but think it needs square brackets. Let me have a go. smile Whoop of joy - it worked - you have my first ever smiley (and it may be the last)

Twobabes Mon 12-Sept-11 13:28:39

Em, I feel extra foolish as I've used a smiley, or one of the other options, on loads of posts before, but today my brain froze and I kept on doing the wrong thing! Hope it's not a sign of things to come. shock
And thank you for your first smile - I'm honoured!

goldengirl Mon 12-Sept-11 20:55:29

Thanks Baggy for the clear 'its' possessive explanation. Very helpful.

Faye Mon 12-Sept-11 21:52:03

I can't remember learning about apostrophes and don't know any phrases to remember them by. I know the rules but find I don't put them in sometimes, because I forget, not because I am not sure. I think it is because I am a touch typist and it slows me down and sometimes I have to go back and put them in. I think they are really important though and I wouldn't like to see them disappear!

Joan Mon 12-Sept-11 23:17:04

It could be worse - think of those languages with accents above the letters - at least we don't have to put up with that.

Twobabes Tue 20-Sept-11 00:13:57

Joan, I was reminded of this thread today when I drove past a sign which read ........ CAFE'. confused

Ariadne Wed 21-Sept-11 11:11:55

Last Christmas, as we were driving through the country side, we saw lots of signs advertising "Xmas tree's", but the very best was one which said: "Xmas reef's".
Oh dear - but it was funny too!

Twobabes Wed 21-Sept-11 12:57:12

Oh, Ariadne! Had to fink for a minute blush

Baggy Wed 21-Sept-11 13:02:37

Nice one! wink

Stansgran Wed 21-Sept-11 14:21:21

local market had a sign hats, gloves and scalf's

em Wed 21-Sept-11 21:31:35

Mention of scalf's made me laugh and reminded me that my DD - now 35 - and her son - 2 1/2 - made the same mistake with that very word. For a short while the initial 's' was pronounced as an 'f' for some reason. When it was cold DD asked for her cosy farf and recently GS was looking for sweets -specifically a tube of 'farties'!!

Daisyanswerdo Fri 14-Oct-11 14:03:15

I've just read through this thread, and noticed the difficulty with 'its' when it's possessive. As Baggy pointed out, the possessive 'its' doesn't have an apostrophe, which is confusing.

Does it help to think of possessive 'its' as being like 'his' or 'her'? Its collar, his home, her car. If 'his' or 'her' can be put in the place of 'its' and makes sense, then 'its' doesn't need an apostrophe.

I'm sticking my neck out here - a new member and being so pedantic! I am hopeless with numbers!

jinglej Fri 14-Oct-11 14:10:34

Perhaps we could ban the apostrophe from this website altogether. Probably the best way.

We laugh in the face of apostrophes! smile

Joan Fri 14-Oct-11 14:37:17

Re it's and its - I believe the apostrophe is left off for the possessive form, to avoid confusion with the one that is short for it is, namely it's.

But yes, let us ban the apostrophe! We must use the full forms of everything, and use the of form for possessive, like in French. Et voila - no apostophes needed!!!! grin

bagitha Fri 14-Oct-11 16:22:31

daisy, thank you for that brilliant way to think of the possessive its. smile

littlemo Fri 14-Oct-11 18:57:01

As a child I found using an apostrophe to indicate possession very challenging, until one teacher simplified it for me by telling me to put the apostrophe after the owner /owners. So in the phrase 'the boys watch', the watch belongs to the boy, hence the boy's watch. Other phrases such as the children's toys, the girls' bags, Anne's pencil, show how easy this is. Just ask yourself "Who is the owner?" In the above examples the owner(s) is/are - the boy, the child, the girls and Anne so the apostrophe goes after them.

Ariadne Fri 14-Oct-11 21:56:45

The apostrophe of possession is, technically, one of omission, since it indicates a missing letter from the possessive case in earl English. Yawn.....

em Fri 14-Oct-11 22:03:22

littlemo, I think if you read all the way through this thread, you'll find that several grans have indeed made clear the use of the apostrophe and many have offered precise and correct explanations. However, the people who are interested enough to read the thread, generally have a pretty good grasp already. The biggest 'culprits' tend not to appear on here as they probably have no idea that they are making the mistakes we discuss!! It's much worse out there in the real world, isn't it? (You may also find Pedants' Corner is of interest!)

jinglej Fri 14-Oct-11 22:20:50

I so hope you don't finds Pedants Corner of any interest whatso-flipping-ever. hmm