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helshea Sat 31-Dec-11 14:38:12

Ok .. I'll thrown this in - what makes a Tart? (jam and pastry is not acceptable) wink

Faye Mon 02-Jan-12 05:55:47

phoenix smile

helshea Mon 02-Jan-12 14:58:49

What's wrong with Jeremy Clarkson?

JessM Mon 02-Jan-12 15:00:38

Nothing, honest... if he happens to be your fantasy man, helshea who are we to criticise smile

helshea Mon 02-Jan-12 15:19:32

As if! But his tongue in cheek humour does make me smirk sometimes. wink

Anne58 Mon 02-Jan-12 15:45:46

I think some of his comments are more "foot in mouth" than "tongue in cheek".

helshea Mon 02-Jan-12 18:33:24

I'm sure his mother loves him smile

Anne58 Mon 02-Jan-12 19:03:46

Well, somebody has to! Now, go and try my trick, please!

pompeyguy Tue 06-Mar-12 21:06:49

Is tart a bit of a northern expression, slapper seem a more popular word down here

petallus Wed 07-Mar-12 08:12:42

The fifties called. They want their attitudes back. (I got that off Mumsnet, good innit?)

Greatnan Wed 07-Mar-12 08:31:18

'Slag' is the derogatory word of choice for many young people. Perhaps 'stud' means a promiscuous young man, but to most people that is more complimentary than otherwise.
Double standards are alive and well. The pressure on girls to 'give out' is immense - my two GDs both started 'going steady' with one boy from the time they were 15 because if they had gone out with a succession of boys they would have been considered 'easy'.
Life was so much easier when I was a teenager in the 50's. Fear of pregnancy and of getting a 'reputation' in my small town kept me virginal until I was engaged - I had dates with dozens of boys before I met my ex-husband and all but one accepted that I just was not 'that kind of girl'. The exception told me honestly that he was looking for sex so he wouldn't be taking me out any more.

wotsamashedupjingl Wed 07-Mar-12 09:44:09

Where does that helshea keeping popping off to? hmm She starts these threads and then............

off she goes!! hmm

Greatnan Wed 07-Mar-12 09:45:55

I don't mind - as long as the threads are interesting I don't care what her/his motive is.

wotsamashedupjingl Wed 07-Mar-12 09:55:16

Oh, helshea hasn't got any motive.

I just wondered where she is? smile

Come back helshea!

absentgrana Wed 07-Mar-12 10:19:07

I am rather partial to Shakespeare's "irksome strumpet". As for men – I don't think either philanderer or libertine, which sounds really seedy, is at all complimentary.

Annika Wed 07-Mar-12 11:08:00

What about the name Jezebe? associated by the early 20th century with fallen or abandoned women

Frankie Laine recorded "Jezebel" (1951),

Do men have such name I wonder, after all if a man "sleeps" around you can hear a chorus of "get in my son" !
Im getting off my soap box now and Im going out to "strutt my stuff". Now where are my fishnet stockings, short skirt and red stiletto heels wink

greenmossgiel Wed 07-Mar-12 11:18:42

I'll get them back to you as soon as I've finished with them *Annika! grin

Annika Wed 07-Mar-12 11:32:56

greenmossgiel you have them Ive been searching high and low for them, but come to think of it I thought Carol borrowed them.
My memory is getting so bad.I can't seem to remember a thing, now where are my fishnet stockings, short skirt and and red stiletto heels wink

bagitha Wed 07-Mar-12 11:34:30

Can a tart be elegant? Or, to put it another way, is there such a thing as an elegant tart?

petallus Wed 07-Mar-12 11:41:32

You mean Audrey Hepburn/Grace Kelly sort of thing? Not Mae West? I think if a tart was elegant it would spoil the image a bit.

Annobel Wed 07-Mar-12 12:10:31

I recall the part played by Joanna Lumley in Shirley Valentine. Very elegant and posh but she referred to herself as a tart - albeit a very expensive one!

Greatnan Wed 07-Mar-12 12:22:31

If a woman marries a man she does not love because he can give her the lifestyle she wants (and vice versa) is it legalised prostitution?

petallus Wed 07-Mar-12 12:24:51

Pompeyguy who resurrected this thread, has gone a bit quiet!

petallus Wed 07-Mar-12 12:26:28

Pompey do tell us what you think makes a tart or a slag. We need the male point of view. Or any other bloke who is having a read of this thread.

pompeyguy Wed 07-Mar-12 18:53:49

Top of my list would be Katie Price (Jordan ), she'd have to pay me.

Annobel Wed 07-Mar-12 19:05:23

I think the difference between a tart and a slag is that a tart does it for money whereas a slag is a promiscuous and usually rather unattractive young woman but not necessarily a prostitute.