Golden Wedding Anniversary

Great idea, and I think Hunt is right, take them early. I have a similar party coming up for sister of DH and don't know what to do either. We are staying in the house, so although it says"no presents" I want to take something as a staying guest.

I have usually given a "Golden Wedding" rose bush. I even found one in France!

how about taking your lovely gift a day or two early if you live near enough then the recipient will have time to arrange them and show them off at the party. I really like the golden theme.

That's nice!

I have quite often written a Charities Aid cheque for them to pay to the charity of their choice. For a 60th I make it £60. Thank goodness nobody has clocked up more than that (so far!)

Yes, a lovely bunch of flowers and a charity donation would make me very happy.

Sounds lovely to me Butter

I would love to receive a gift like that, Butternut!

Sounds lovely & personal too which is always a bonus!!

I have also had invites which have said no pressies and on a couple of occasions along with a group of mutual friends we clubbed together and bought a charity gift ( a goat / mosquito nets etc) appropriate to the interests of the person concerned.

Oh good! Just want I wanted to hear. You have given me the encouragement to be confident in this gift. Thanks all.

Yes, indeed, Butter! Those gifts would show thoughtfulness, as well as being appropriate!

I would be more than happy with that , it sounds a lovely idea

Sounds just what I'd want

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