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Lilygran Wed 12-Sept-12 11:14:52

There was an item on Today (Radio 4) this morning about women deliberately deciding never to look at themselves in the mirror in order to overcome their insecurities over their appearance. I thought this was a bit weird. Not sure how it would work.

Movedalot Wed 12-Sept-12 11:16:31

I have a friend who won't ever have her photo taken, is that the same?

Anagram Wed 12-Sept-12 11:16:36

It wouldn't work for me! I'd spend all day being insecure about whether my hair was a mess! confused

Greatnan Wed 12-Sept-12 11:19:56

I very rarely look in a mirror - simply because my appearance is not important to me. My short hair doesn't need styling and I don't wear make-up. I did get a surprise when I saw myself reflected in my French windows, as I have lost two stone and it shows. (Not dieting, just walking.)
I think back with amusement to the days when I had a smooth bob which needed putting into place all the time - as soon as I got into a restaurant or bar I would rush to the Ladies to check that I did not have a hair out of place. It is so relaxing to be a DILLIGAF.

annodomini Wed 12-Sept-12 11:23:31

If they won't look in the mirror, how do they get on at the hairdresser's? I enjoy seeing a transformation from scruffy to (reasonably) sleek. It doesn't last, of course.

Anagram Wed 12-Sept-12 11:40:46

Apart from hair and face, what about clothes? I like to check that what I've put on actually looks reasonable, especially to go to work in.
Imagine trying to apply makeup without a mirror! (Those of us who wear it)

JO4 Wed 12-Sept-12 11:49:08

Yes, you need it for clothes. Even then I often glance down when I go through the gate to make sure I've put it all on!

Greatnan Wed 12-Sept-12 11:55:49

I tend to wear black trousers and white tee shirts every day, but I doubt if the sheep notice. I used to embarrass my daughter with my eccentric outfits, but after two years in New Zealand she is more tolerant!

janeainsworth Wed 12-Sept-12 12:11:53

Well, I care about my appearance and if that means people think I'm insecure I really don't caresmile.
I broke my wrist 10 years ago and the worst thing apart from not bring able to work (I was self employed) was trying to put my make-up on and do my hair with my left hand!

Littlenellie Wed 12-Sept-12 12:19:51

Well looking at some of the sights around,there does seem to be a lot of
People who dont check before they go out...ooohh meow Nellie grin

Greatnan I think you should have a new name Dilligaf. grin

Got told the other day that I was NILTF...grin

Littlenellie Wed 12-Sept-12 12:21:29

Ps I am always checking in the mirror,back front sideways....vain or what..

Nanadogsbody Wed 12-Sept-12 12:36:51

I use the mirror as a reality check...... hmm

getmehrt Wed 12-Sept-12 12:55:17

I look in the mirror but I find there are bits I just don't take in any more.

Who was it said that after a certain age, you have to choose between your face and your hips?

I am quite selective in what I see.

harrigran Wed 12-Sept-12 15:15:36

I am fascinated by women who take a lipstick from their handbag and proceed to apply it without a mirror, if I did that I would look like Coco the clown.

Greatnan Wed 12-Sept-12 15:19:10

I don't believe for a minute that wanting to look the best you can, with whatever help you can get, means you are insecure. I used to really enjoy getting ready to go out and seeing the transformation take place. I just lost interest when I stopped having any social life.

Anagram Wed 12-Sept-12 15:42:01

I suppose if you had body dismorphic disorder the mirror-avoidance technique might be a useful part of treatment. Or anorexia.

soop Wed 12-Sept-12 15:46:29

Littlenellie shall I give you an honest answer, or not? grin

annodomini Wed 12-Sept-12 15:56:28

Oh, go on, soop!

soop Wed 12-Sept-12 15:58:55

Don't tempt me, anno...I love that Nellie wink

Littlenellie Wed 12-Sept-12 18:45:08

That's NOT then soop grin

janeainsworth Wed 12-Sept-12 19:25:16

You've stopped having any social life greatnan?
Doesn't having anno to stay count? grin

Greatnan Wed 12-Sept-12 19:34:04

I don't think Anno cared about my lack of glamour!

annodomini Wed 12-Sept-12 19:41:02

I don't think I qualify as 'social life'!

Greatnan Wed 12-Sept-12 19:43:37

No, you are much better company!

annodomini Wed 12-Sept-12 19:46:46

Flattery! grin