what would you think if.................. .....

I think 'c', ninathenana. Which would you choose?

I'd think all three in turn with the added wonder how I could find out!!

'c' nina

Me too, nina - c)

Agreed - c)

I know its late at night but I don't quite see the point of this. Is this a hypothetical situation?

a.

a Unless you seriously think you have cause to think there is something underhand. If you know the mother is in a home go and visit her, you are a neighbour it might settle your mind. If you have never had contact with her then definately a.

I think a) but if you are only on nodding terms with your neighbour how do you even know all this?

a.

a

It really is nobody elses business. Unless some abuse is suspected.

a

Definitely a.

a

a

ninathenana - what are your own concerns about this though? It sounds as if there's a bit more to this?

C

c

I did post a new thread in reply to this but it's vanished !

The thread is actually about my brother/mum/DD. There are good reasons which I explained in the other thread.

I was just curious to know what his neighbours would be thinking. Especially one that he has had rows with over other things in the past.

I would have expected mostly c's from you lovely lot