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Smoluski Fri 21-Dec-12 18:57:31

Just want to wish you all merry Christmas,I am struggling at the moment,back when I feel betterxxxxlove nellie

Ana Fri 21-Dec-12 19:00:26

Lots of love to you, too, nellie, ♥

I hope you feel better soon, you derserve to! smile

Bags Fri 21-Dec-12 19:11:30

Best wishes to you and yours, nelliesmol. We'll save a warm gransnet spot for you. flowers

Butty Fri 21-Dec-12 19:21:52

nellie It's a rotten place to be, so wishing you all good speed in feeling better.
Take care. x

Mishap Fri 21-Dec-12 19:37:48

Warm wishes for Christmas - you have bounced back before and will do so again I am sure.

Ariadne Fri 21-Dec-12 20:03:34

Big hug, dear Nellie. Come back soon, and look after yourself in the middle of looking after everyone else! flowers

whenim64 Fri 21-Dec-12 20:08:02

Nip in when you feel like saying hello SmolNellie. You know we're here when you need us flowers

Pete Fri 21-Dec-12 20:35:44

Take care Nellie....left one behind the bar for you x

glassortwo Fri 21-Dec-12 20:38:04

Ahh Nellie we will all be here when you are up to coming back xx {{{hugs}}}

annodomini Fri 21-Dec-12 20:40:03

Hi Nelliesmol, sorry you are feeling low. We're here for you - it's a difficult time of year, isn't it? I hope you get a bit of time to yourself over the so-called 'festive' season. x x x

mrshat Fri 21-Dec-12 20:43:57

Keep positive Nellie - it's a tough time. Look after yourself {hugs}

Ella46 Fri 21-Dec-12 20:44:27

nellie It's a bad time isn't it? Am finding it hard too but not anything like your level, look after yourself xxx

Nanado Fri 21-Dec-12 21:42:27

nellie ((((((hugs))))))

baubles Fri 21-Dec-12 22:26:48

Take care of yourself nellie/smol flowers

gracesmum Fri 21-Dec-12 22:34:03

Big hug, nellie - we are here for you whenver you need us - in the meantime look after yourself too flowers

Nelliemoser Fri 21-Dec-12 22:54:23

((((hugs)))) Nellie S.

numberplease Sat 22-Dec-12 01:00:56

Lots of hugs and good wishes from here too, Nellie!

kittylester Sat 22-Dec-12 08:11:34

nellie los of hugs and love to you and yours, take care and come back when you can flowers

Ella love and hugs to you too. flowers

Grannyknot Sat 22-Dec-12 19:48:35

I always feel so sorry for people who struggle around this time of year. I'm not that great with it myself, but as a woman said to me in the supermarket this week, only a few more days and it will all be over. flowers

Marelli Sat 22-Dec-12 20:13:54

NellieSmol, I've missed your posts and wondered if you were ok. It can be a right 'despairing' time, can Christmas-time. It'll pass, and we'll all be here for you and those others who are feeling so very sad just now. Be kind to yourselves. flowers

angiebaby Tue 01-Jan-13 13:00:16

nellie...its all over,,,yippeee,,,,,try to be strong think of yourself,,,,if you were on this site we could all give you a hug,,,thats all some women want sometimes,.....not sex not gropes just a warm strong hug,,,,,no talking no lectures just a hug, you havent shared your problem with us,,,but if it helps,,,,,a lot of us have or are having problems in their life, but we all need to be strong,,,,,i have had severe depression,,,was all alone for years while my husband worked abroad, i have cried oaceans...lived on tablets..wanted to die many times,,,,,,but you have to get through it ,,,no one can do it but you, i have no reason to be depressed,,,but i lost my dad and then i lost my mum ,,,,they were divorced and my dad had someone else, i havent had a happy childhood no love in it, lots of things gone on in my life,,,,but be strong,,,move on and think of yourself,,,go treat yourself,,,,,,have a pamper day,,,,,,,take care,,,,we are all here for you,,,,,,and remember there is always someone here worse off than yourself,

Marelli Tue 01-Jan-13 14:31:45

angiebaby, I'm sure your post means to be light-hearted and well-meaning, but sometimes things happen in people's lives that are never sorted by a pamper day, or by treating oneself. Sometimes the wherewithal isn't there to do it with, and neither is the inclination. If it works for you, though, then that's a good thing.

celebgran Tue 01-Jan-13 18:29:20

I do feel sense of relief that Xmas nearly over!

was amazing see my son and his partner was so lovely making us delish xmas dinner, but be both felt very tense, OH WAS not that well and awful drive.
still was good see our son and I find it relief that new year now and we can all get back to normal!
Having friends for meal tom and club meeting in afternoon then hey presto decorating!!

celebgran Tue 01-Jan-13 18:30:49

sorry meant to say sorry not very good for Smoluski i missed her post, and do hope 2013 is easier for her. all the best and we will all support you any way we can just being able to sound off helps I find flowers for her and anyone else going through struggle at moment.

angiebaby Fri 25-Jan-13 18:01:49

marrelli...yes i agree...but trying to do something for yourself to give yourself a hug is really what i mean yes i know...i have problems too,,,,,i know it doesnt go away so easily,,,,sleepless nights,,,feeling sick,,,feeling dizzy,,,all the stress,,,you sem all alone,,,no one cares,,,but at least i feel i can chat on hear.......trouble is a lot of people doesnt understand,,,,,,,i havent seen or heard from my daughter for 3 weeks tomorrow now,,,she is only round the corner,,,its heart breaking,,,,,,but i plod on,,,,