I have this vision of all these ladies "of a certain age" around the nation pushing like crazy - it's very bad for your pelvic floors you know!!
Thank you so much for all your wonderful support - I was a wreck yesterday. A friend of mine had a very bad experience at the hospital where my DD is - her GC died through poor care (failure to notice foetal distress, a section done too late and bodged - her DD's bladder was sliced into) and this refused to stop going through my mind, even though I knew it was a very rare event. So....all your good wishes were hugely valued, believe me.
My DD has just phoned. She had the ventouse because the contractions, which had been fine all through first stage, suddenly stopped and baby had to be pulled out - I am so glad she was in the right place for this to happen. She is dying to come home, but the staff are wanting her to stay as baby is not really sucking - poor scrap is probably tired. DD feels that this problem can be dealt with at home with support of community midwife and Mum and sisters. We will see her later either in hospital or at home. She sounds fine, but is sore for sitting down.
The baby looks like me she says - with very dark hair and deep brown eyes - she and her OH were fair with blue eyes, now a bit darker. So, one for me!!!
I cannot wait to see her - I will try and get a photo to post - I think you all deserve that after all your puffing and panting on her behalf!!!