JessM Surely your own maid ironed your frilly things. I would never trust a housemaid to do it right but then I wear few things that frill. On the other hand, the last footman but one was very into frilly undies himself, but he had to iron his own in his own time.
Actually, at one time I had a very camp male cleaner who used to go into ecstasy or agony about my lingerie, depending on whether he approved of the colour or not.
Granny23 It's lovely to see that you are posting again and I'm sure that there are lots of other grannies who are delighted that you are back with us.