Hope it's ok to put this here.
My DD1 has been promoted at work. We are so pleased for her. She has had a couple of really horrible years which she has come through with dignity and a positive attitude. She works so hard and also copes as a single ( not through choice) mum. So proud of her.
Nearly a year on and not being able to speak to sister about our brothers passing


- not to detract from your post, but I'm sharing your joy. My daughter is on maternity leave and has just been told that when she returns it will be to a promotion. She was expecting to be made redundant!!
Cheers to our clever daughters! So nice to be able to share some good news isn't it? 
I up for some good news!! cheers to clever daughters and new Babies to come!
I can understand your anger though.