I joined a couple of years ago, but don't subscribe to pecking orders, cliques, prefects or assuming new Gransnetters are anything other than welcome and will want to discuss the sort of issues that interest other grandparents. I couldn't help the fact that I joined when I heard about Gransnetters, nor could I see into the future and find that anyone who joined at the start of Gransnet would be regarded as somehow seeing themselves as head girls or suchlike. I certainly don't identify with labels like that. (I'm not angling for anyone to say they don't mean me, by the way).
Some new members jump right in and post when and where they want, whilst others take their time. I was slow to join in at first, but now I've got to know my way around I feel more confident. I've even met a few Gransnetters in the north-west, and found each and very one of them to be lovely people.
It does hurt to be described as has been said on here, when one is part of a massive group of people who all joined Gransnet at the start. We're all one homogenous group, all different and all with much in common. It's great to see new names and discover the interests and experiences that they bring with them. I understand that some people will see things differently from me, but that doesn't make my view any less valid than theirs.