Which is why I said, again and again, that urgent building of suitable accommodation has to be built - and before the so called bedroom tax comes into force- and that sensitivity and creativity, combined with personal and community support, combined with proper facilities and infrastructure in place. How many times do I have to repeat this?
Let's look at a different example: organ donation. Ideally, anyone in need of a vital organ should get one. But the reality is very different (and I feel we should urgently move to an opt out system- but this is for a different thread). Fact is, there are not enough organs to go round- partly because there are too few donors. So, when an organ becomes available, say a liver- the organ team will look on the computer to see how many matches there are. If there are several possible patients who are a match - a team will then meet to discuss the different cases to see which patient will receive the organ. And,quite rightly I feel, a young father, with young children and a life ahead of him would get priority over an older patient.
However it could get a lot more complicated. What if the young father is a heavy drinker and smoker who has made it known that he has no intention to stop - whereas the older patient is very fit with a very healthy lifestyle. Agonising at times for the donor teams - but they have strict guidelines for priorities. And same for accommodation.
Not one single person has come back to me and explained why an older person with 2 or more spare bedrooms and a garden should have priority of families living with several children in a bedsit? When families got their council house to bring up their families, surely they must have known that this was according to need, and not for life. Yes, it is totally unfair some would say, that those who were able to buy their own house have the luxury of choice - but as said, for many, there is no choice- they have to downsize, just like my parents had to. To feed themselves and as they cannot afford maintenance. Is that fair?